Love

Okay, Well What can I say? I'm young and in love. I'm in love with my best friend, she is amazing but she doesn't feel the same way for me and she's in love with her bf :'( & I don't know what to do, I always want to tell her how I feel about her..But I guess I'm too afraid..and a year ago I told her that I love her but she says that if she had to pick it would be her bf, So I tried forgetting her but I just couldn't. Please help me, what should I do?

 

You're stuck in the friend zone. Tough luck buddy.

 

You're stuck in friend zone -for now-. That's the biggest part to emphasize. Don't tell her you like her, it will only further complicate things and probably completely fuck up your relationship. I just went through it, trust me. Just let it go until you have a good opportunity, like when she's single.

 

I doubt she'll ever be single, she really love her bf

 

You should forget about her.

Be thankful that you have a girl as your best friend..
Most girls wouldn't let that happen unless the guy is really casual and will never fall in love with her.

My opinion, don't ever tell her you have feelings for her or even say anything about it from now on, You don't wanna jeopardize her relationship with her boyfriend and your friendship.

It hurts but time to move on My girlfriend had a best friend who liked her too and I was extremely pissed at the whole situation.

Her boyfriend will be mad pissed too I believe so don't do it bro. He got her first, She loves him and only loves you as a friend. Remember that and keep it that way.

 

If you try to push her about it you could potentially ruin your friendship. I know exactly how you feel, and to be perfectly honest, there's not really much you can do.

Either try to move on, or be content with where you're at.

 

I agree.
she is in love with another guy. do not be selfish and ruin that. if you really loved her you would let her have you both.

 

If you really love her then you will just need to wait and see if her and her boyfriend breakup and if her feelings for you change.

 

It's called a crush. I know that sounds ridiculous right now and you probably think "this is more than a crush" but to be honest, I know what you're going though... It's a crush.

 

Trust me its not, I know I am in love, I knew her for 3 years

 

If you're not open to the possibilities, I can't really help you.

 

Its quite possible he is actually in love. I had told my girlfriend I loved her before we were dating and I really did mean it. The real choice here is to try to forget her or wait for her.

 

I'm just saying, I'm 100% sure I am because I know how it is to have a crush on someone, but being in love is totally different. Anyways I really don't know what should I do. I tried forgetting her but I just can't! Seems like there is no hope left either.

 

I'll entertain the idea as I have felt the same way, but it is few and far between... Just tell her straight up how you feel. Put it all on the table and let her take or leave what she will.

 

You should try harder.

If I were you, I take friendship over relationship with her.

Option 1 : Best Friends = Lifetime. ( RECOMMENDED ) GUARANTEED TO WORK!
Option 2 : Best friends to couples ? = ? months.

Your choice, Pick 1 and you'll stay as besties forever.
Pick 2 and you'll destroy her life with her boyfriend whom she loves and your friendship with her forever.

Infact, The boyfriend may even get so angry that he find ways to get back at you for screwing shit up.
Or, He may be a nice guy and just walk up to you and ask "Why bro? She was my girl first.. Why'd you screw me over like that?".

Seriously, Pick option 1. Do the right thing.

You won't be breaking their hearts but you'll be breaking the kind people here who've been trying to help you. Including me. you really wanna do that?

 

You cant really do much man i know how you feel though i was in this spot when i was 16. it really sucks you just gotta wait man she wont be with him forever if you really love her dude all you gotta do is wait for her and prove that your the one

 

DO NOT DO THIS. I honestly don't know what you were thinking giving this advice. She has a boyfriend and he has given no details to even hint in the slightest that she is attracted to him. She has a boyfriend and apparently there best friends if she wanted something more there would be something more.

Don't listen to him if you put it on the table she will leave it and you will be left with nothing buy heartache

 

If I pick option 1, i will be sad rest of my life. :'(

I can't wait forever

I think I decided what I'm gona do, I'll just try to forget her. Hopefully time will make me forget her

 

How long has she been with her boyfriend ?
It could help with some of the advice that people give.

 

Do the right thing bro You'll find true happiness in the future. All that pain and long wait will soon, give you back something. Don't give up now Keep fighting the feeling!