what should i do?

ok so i login to msn and this girl i havn talked to in a long while pm's me.

we start talking and she sends me a picture of my name in her stomach, and one in her butt. i mean this girl is fucking gorgeous with a dam nice body.

and she asks for a picture in return..

in which i return the favor and this has been going on for a while.

shes starting to get too attached now and some how she got my phone number and wont quit texting me.

after a one night stand at my house shes stopped by twice! with food and a movie. i dont know if iam leading her on or whats going on. but iam not really interested in a long term relationship especially with a girl like her and her reputation.

 

How old are you?
Is she a slut, or a popular good looking girl?

Depending on your age, most relationships aren't long term.
Whats her reputation?

 

Tell her straight up man, so you won't lead her on. Maybe have her over a few more times before that though

 

iam 20 id say both but that was 2-3 years ago while i was in hs still man it feel embarassed be seen with her if you get what i mean

few friends have told me the same thing but it will just make me feel more guilty if i dump or hurt her.

 

You're 20 years old and you're actually embarrassed to be seen with an attractive girl? What makes you think people know her or her reputation from 3 years ago or even give a shit? There is no reason to judge someone because of the things they did in high school.

And why does it have to be a long term relationship? You've never heard of friends with benefits? If you enjoy her company, then just go with it. I don't even see why you're complaining about having a hot girl all over you or why you even give a shit about what other people think. I can't even imagine any guy at your age looking down on you for getting with a "slut" unless they're just extremely childish or gay.

 

Just go with it.

Unless she starts talking about having kids and getting married, You shouldn't be too worried.

 

just try to see past your own insecurities
try to get past the superficial layer

the social aspects of relationships matters 100x less after high school

also, after high school, you are much less likely to land a nice attractive girl like that.




then again, i know a girl like that and wanted to get with her but before i did i found out she was in an orgy with a bunch of guys.

hmm, its a tough decision.

 

Tap it and leave it.

 

Yeah your going to have to tell her. I know, sometimes it feels bad to do the right thing. But look at it this way, if she 'never' leaves you alone, your probably going to be stuck with her for quite a while.

 

He already did and he wants to leave, read the OP.


My advice is to tell her straight up in a private calm manner, in the long run you'll hurt her more and garner more guilt by leading her on and then ending up breaking up with her in whatever way.

 

Uts not childish or gay this girl was caught giving a bj in the guys restroom her nickname was bj girl and theres a video going around on facebook of her that ii havnt seen but its basicly her and a guy doing it at a party.

She does seem to have changed I still cant kiss her cumfterably because I imagine a dck in her mouth

 

Man, what the f are you talking about? Just go with it. She's hot and she's changed, who cares what happened 3 years ago. I'd say you're a pussy if you're afraid to be seen in the public with a girl that HAD a bad reputation.

 

Lol believe it or not, but most girls at 20 years old have had sex more than once. Bj girl? That's fucking lame. It sounds like you're hanging around a bunch of 14 year olds. If you haven't seen the video then you don't know if it even exists. All your reasons for wanting to get rid of this girl are just stupid. I'm having a hard believing you're even 20 to be honest, considering this kind of shit should not be happening at that age. If you're going to imagine a dick in her mouth then let it be yours.

 

I lold at this

Can I post her picture here?

 

Yeah you can.

 

I don't understand why a lot of the OPs don't get that girls aren't generally interested in the "hit it and quit it" mentality. That's why she'd be hurt. And the fact that you know she'd be hurt if you told her makes it worse. You need to apologize and ask for forgiveness then move on and hopefully she will too.

Just my opinion take it or leave it.