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  1. Lambda

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    Ending a friendship

    Long story short:
    This girl has just hurt me over and over. Completely the opposite from what she was when we started talking again. Calls me a push over, weenie, basically asks me to change. When I ask people who I talk to everyday if I'm those things, they flat out say no. People I've known longer than her will agree with them.

    I'm not sure what her problem is. I just know that I'm done with being hurt.

    Now, I'm a person who loves vengeance. What should I do?
    Ignore -> block?
    or just block her and be done?
     
  2. Coinshare

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    Block her and be done.
    Ignoring her will make her get over you if she keeps on trying to talk to you and you always ignore her.
    Also,
    Did any of you ever have feelings for eachother?
    ^ Also why does she want you to change, does she like you? ^
     
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    Block her and be done with it, ending a friendship is never easy but to be treated like that is never worth it, but taking vengeance is not the answer either.

    You are in a bit a unique difficult situation, if you want to talk add my MSN
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    Yes and no.. she'll drag it on that she does. Then when I try to take it further.. the feelings are gone.

    What one of her close friends said "I would be like so what's up with u and Lambda and she would be like nothing that noob is annoying and I would be like I thought u liked him and she would just say idk
    or she would say she dosent but then say she doesn't know" "She said that she liked you.." "she has mixed emotions"
     
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    Ah now that makes sense, she wants YOU to change for her so you guys can be in a relationship! Be it physicially change, mentally change, or emotionally change I have no clue.
    I'd still ignore her as I said before, don't change for anyone.
    Edit: When I mean change for anyone I mean don't be fake or do it just for a girl. Good luck
     
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    Ending a friendship

    Tease her back?

    Girls tease guys, guys tease girls.
    It's actually an indicator about whether they like you or not.
     
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    I completely agree never change for someone unless you feel the change is beneficial to you both. Just remember theres billions of girls out there if you don't get along with her don't hold on!
     
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    Never change yourself just to appease someone.

    Do it for your own personal benefit/betterment.
     
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