Girlfriend problem... ;/

Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months and counting atm. Long story short i fell in love to easily and to quick since she was my first Girlfriend i guess thats was part of the reason. Everytime we went to sleep, nap, or be away for a lil bit and wouldnt text we would say i love you. Its been a habit for 8 months. Lately, she hasnt said it as often... like usually before church or whatever we go to different churches at different times we would say gtg i love you. i always say it but she keeps on forgetting and i get mad. Like i been saying it for 8 months once have i forgotten to say it and now she starting to forget so idk i just get mad since she said she loves me alot how can she just forget to say 3 simple words? like wtf man ;/ and idk its getting to me big time like if she cant even say those 3 words as a habit then wtf wat bout our relationship u know? ;/

Help, wat should i do. I told her this yesterday and we got into a arguement n we cooled down n stopped fighting. (all this through text) and today i took a nap n she said ilove u and everything i woke up like 3 mins before she got to church and she only said. "Great time to wake up, i gtg now church." and im like wtf... Really... we just discussed this yesterday... so im at a bit of mixed feelings atm

PLEASE HELP

 

It sounds like you're being very paranoid and making mountains out of mole hills.

How about you tell her about how much this is getting to you in person?

Also how old are you? You seem quite young, if that's the case then whatever the fuck happens doesn't matter.

 

im 17 she 18. n we dont go to the same school i only see her ever 2 weeks

 

I would just quit with the love texts and see what she does.. don't be losing your cool over something so silly. Most people do X's in texts, as love you can be a bit obsessive & tedious unless you're really close/actually are in love.

As you said, it's a habit. If you only did it after you complimented her about something then it would be more meaningful.

I don't think seeing each other every 2 weeks is love lol, just chill bro.

 

It's probably nothing to worry about. She maybe just get tired of saying "I love you" because she thinks that you know it already. Try to have a face to face talk to her about the situation and I'm sure evreything will be sorted out

 

To be blunt, if you only see her every 2 weeks and the majority of your talking is over a text, I don't see your relationship going anywhere. Yeah, it's your first girlfriend, but there will be more.

In regards to the, "I love you" dilemma - I'd say you're being overly paranoid about it, as I previously stated, she is your first serious relationship. You're most likely blowing it out of proportion, it's not a biggy.

 

I talk to her on her phone every morning before school an every night before we go to sleep

Hopefuly

 

listen to this guy. If you bring it up to her because your being over paranoid it will eventually push her away cause you are acting ridiculous. it is just three words it doesnt mean anything. if she doesnt say it to you then dont say it back see what happends.
true love is shown by actions not words

 

Keep letting it get to you and you will come off as overbearing and paranoid , no girl will stay with you if she gets that impression, you need to stop worrying about the little things.
Just spend time with her when you get the chance, love is just a word, if you say it often enough it loses meaning.

 

i guess :/

 

Classic first relationship, really I don't think there is much one can say to you to change it. You have to realise it on your own, when you've had a few relationships you will be able to recognise that it is a minor thing.

 

You will always have this issues in relationships 2 options: you fuck the hell out of her and dump her or you will keep her and life with this L

 

I'm sorry, but does anyone else realize that they've only been dating for 8 months, and they've been telling each other that they loved one another for 8 months?

It's your first relationship, you probably don't love her. You just think that you do because you've never had another girlfriend, and the feeling of happiness that you have, you think that's love. It gets better.

I've always hated seeing people on Facebook telling their boyfriends/girlfriends that they love each other after dating for a day.

 

I completely agree. "Love" has become the new "like" in teen relationships.

 

Agreed to this.

Also, why do you only text? Call her. If you REALLY want her to say I love you, actually call her and have a good conversation. If you want to know if she still has feelings for you, politely ask her if she does or not. Ask her to tell you her feelings about you, what SHE really thinks.

 

If she's not saying "I love you" to you, then it's probably for the exact reason that you think she's not, she doesn't love you. She may like you, a lot, but there's a very thick line in between liking and loving someone.

What the hell does that have to do with anything?

 

I do talk to her Everyday. I talk to her in the morning for 1 hour before i have to get up for school and get ready. Basicly i wake up at 4 am shower and talk to her from 4:30-5:30 and 10pm-idk prolly 11 or 12 so yea

 

Give her sometime time. Ask her if something is wrong

 

sounds like she is a huge part of your life, you need to back off a little and let her do some work.
Here is a quote to think about:
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."

 

You need to calm the fuck down. I would tell my girlfriend of a year and a half i loved her maybe once twice max a day. If you constantly feel the need to tell her you love her maybe your feelings are what you should be questioning.