Girl Problem(As Usual)

Fucking LOL, how old are you? I don't mean that in the derogatory sense by the way, it's just that most people over 17-18 realise that what you're suggesting is the polar opposite of what you should be doing if you actually want a girl to like you.
To OP, that's the absolute worst thing you could possibly do if you want her to be attracted to you.

BUT, you're pulling a really dickish move here by trying to get with a friend's girlfriend. The fact you're asking on sythe of all places for advice tells me you won't get with her anyway, but it shows an awful side of your personality. My advice to you would be to just leave it alone, even if they break up. If they DO break up on bad terms (face it, they're 15, of course it will be on bad terms) then nothing will piss off your friend more than getting with his ex-girlfriend.

 

thanks for advice

 

I'm 17. Actually, usually in a way of sense if you help a girl out, she'll get better friends with you. Therefore making it, after you guys talk a while, she might (I use might strongly) get attracted to you. It's not bad if she's attracted to you, but only as long as your "friend" doesn't know about it for a while.

Sythe is actually a great place for advice, you shouldn't judge someone since they're asking for help. That's exactly WHAT this forum is for. Just because he asks for help, doesn't mean he has a bad personality; does it?

If they break up...that's WHY you wait a while.

 

thx Arozex

 

You should try keep your emotions under control atleast until they break up. Another thing is, when they do break up, act casual; you dont want her to think your a guy who runs around after a girl all the time. Besides, you don't want your friend to be pissed off at you for going out with his ex.

 

hes trying to talk to a girl, not one of pavlovs dogs.

operant and classical conditioning may work for kids and animals but it wont work for a rational female.

we judge people 24/7.
you cant tell someone not to judge others.

just helping a girl wont guarantee mating with her.
asking a girl to help her is no guarantee she wont laugh and walk away.

 

leave a friends girlfriend alone. this is guy code.

 

right, i m just planning to leave her, trying to be DUDE

thanks to every one for help and advice

 

dont do her homework lol. But be nice and be there for her.... don't take sides if her and her bf is fighting because the other person will just get mad at you

 

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1 good piece of info : bros before hoes.

 

you should at least wait untill they break up, I've had a similiar problem a few years ago and it sucks.
I'd say go out and find a new girl

 

I am sorry to sound like a dick, but how much do like your your friend?

Is this your friend worth the risk of not getting the girl?

Or is the Girl not worth the risk of losing your friend?


If you decide you want the girl, I say go for it. A relationship if a 50/50. Even if you tempt her and try to persuade her to come after you, she should resist if she is where she wants to be.

In life you have to take what you want, I am not saying you should stab your friend in the back, just be honest with him and her. Tell him you like his girlfriend and you ARE going to pursue her.

And tell her, I have feeling for you despite my friendship with whomever his name is.

IN life you have to go for what you want. I am not saying kick your friend, but be honest and do your own thing.

If you do value your friendship more, then listen to everyone else.

 

if i had a girlfriend that i really liked and one of my friends walked up and said,

"hey dude, i am going to try to get with your girlfriend. its nothing personal, its just i have no need to be anything but selfish in this situation. it doesnt matter what you say, i am going to try to make her attracted to me",

i would punch him in the face.

 

lol,

 

The best thing is to find out if she has a ppd friend and ask your guy friend if he and his girlfriend would set up an outing with all four of you, and see what happens it's always fun for me. Even if the guy is a total loser, because you're not in any kind of relationship so it's not a big deal.

 

Not trying to mock you, but what DID you expect?

A blowjob? Think about it from her perspective.

This sums up my thoughts on this matter, not to be the all-knowing relationship expert and p00n_slay3r, but I've had my fair share of experience and this is what seems to work 90% of the time.

It's not mocking him, it's informing him of the real world as we perceive it to be based on our experiences.



When I was 14, I was deathly in love with a girl who knew how I felt and we 'flirted' but I didn't man up and ask her out due to intense shyness and idiocy in her presence - she was beautiful, smart, understanding, knew my family - basically everything my mind at that time could ever want. I was showed up by one of my best friends who barely knew her and he asked her out; she said yes and I struggled from there. Take my advice, it's not worth it.

 

Epic Idea,

Will it try tomorrow
Thanks a ton