Shits fucking horrible

My life problems include:

1. Hardly any friends (have 5 or 6 but thats it, everone else hates me with a passion)
2. Heavily overweight (like I weigh 80KG, 160 pounds in grade 9)
3. Never had a girlfriend.. (I never get the courage to ask a girl.. and end up in the 'friend zone')

I scape alot..
Go to boarding school

 

I would tell you to scape less and actually go out with friends and chill. This way, you'll be friends with their friends and so on. As for people hating you... let me tell you one thing. If they have nothing to hate you for and cuss you out, box em out and others will see that they shouldn't fuck around with you and the hate will go all once in for all. As for your weight, keep a healthy diet and start going to the gym.

Good luck with all this and trust me, you'll get through all this if you actually show effort.

 

your name doesn't reflect your attitude thanks. During the week i don't scape. I eat healthy and gym every morning. I don't get why im fat.

The friends thing isn't true. People like me, but the 'fat' jokes piss me off. The group i only hang out with is about 6

 

'fat' jokes are told to every fat person, sometimes it's said in a friendly way and sometimes not. Some people don't eat or go to the gym and still overweight so I don't know. I have seen many cases where the person barely eats and still carries the weight. I am not sure what your case is but don't worry, if you keep working like this for a couple of months, you'll burn it out.

 

Unless your genetically born "fat" you gain weight by consuming more calories than you burn. Also you may have a slow metabolism.
Try take up an intensive sport like rowing or boxing.

You'll feel a surge in confidence if you lose weight.

 

80kg isn't that much, believe me. You should be able to stabilize your weight in a month or two/three. As for the friends part: Why do they dislike you? Perhaps you should change your attitude a bit. Ask your real friends what they find annoying about you, and insist to be honest. When you lost some weight, and are kind to everyone, the girlfriend part will be solved as well... .

Good luck! I wish you all the best.

 

Cardio, start running 5 times a week for ~1 mile distance and stay faithful to it.

Once you get in shape, you'll have all the confidence you need to tackle all the other problems in your life, take one day at a time. Good luck man.

 

I read this. Im trying to burn the weight asap. Friends ain't bad I have only a few close mates but alot of friends who sit at our table ect.

 

Just drink water, and excercise, be confident..and everything will become better

 

Rmc your advice is nothing 10$ on your fat also

 

How do you mean its nothing? The best thing is to start drinking water...its easy,and makes you loose weight..

Not like I am going to make him a schedule on how to train...or something.
Just a normal tip.

 

I wouldn't say 160 is overweight at all.. you can easily lose what you want in just a few months.

6 friends is actually quite a few.

You are only in grade 9; you have a lot of time to find a girlfriend and gain confidence. Your low confidence may stem from you thinking you're overweight; just continue to work out and exercise.

 

You say you only have 6 friends.. then in a later post you say you have plenty of people sitting with you at your table. Why contradict yourself?

 

Just hit the gym REGULARLY, your fat will turn into muscle and you'll be fine.

Go jogging/running every morning if you are GENUINELY wanting to lose weight and that will take care of everything in 3/4 months if you put HARD work in.

 

I have 6 people I consider friends. But I have multiple people i sit with eat with joke with ect..

 

If you have friends that will have your back no matter what, do NOT take that for granted.

It's cool and such right now to have a lot of friends..
But when you leave boarding school, you'll realize they weren't actually your friend.

I felt this way in high school.
I was considered popular, but after I left I wasn't happy with myself.

This time of your life is not going to make you the man you will grow up to be in the future.

Those six friends may even be the closest friends you will ever have, maybe one will be your best man and your wedding.

And about the weight, that's no big deal.
When you're at the gym..Don't bother what people think about you.
Be happy about yourself.
After a while you get used to going to the gym, and you've just created your own routine.

And for girls, forget it man. Don't let them rule your life.
At this point, guys are like "Man having sex and hooking up etc."

Enjoy your life.
You never know when you have your last breath.

 

You don't need many friends. As long as you have those few close ones, it's all good. 160 pounds in grade 9 is nothing. My little brother is 160, he's in 9th grade. Though he is 6'2, but he has a lot of friends who weigh the same as him and are a shorter.

As for not having a girlfriend, a lot of people don't get a boyfriend till high school.

Your life doesn't suck, you just try to hard to think that way.

 

I am like 6'1 atm im not 160 im like 148 or something

 

If you're 6'1 and 148 pounds, you are definitely not heavily overweight, more like extremely underweight.

 

Everyone goes to the gym for their own reasons. No one's gunna judge you there. Keep your chin up man, things will get better .