Girl Advice

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Ah the old drunken sex, i am guessing your talking about sex are you not?
Even if you aren't this will still work.

If you can, text her, after a bit of a conversation try to lead towards asking her what she likes (for example she says bowling or something), then say oh my god I haven't been bowling for aaages, want to come bowling?
If you don't ask her then you could ask her in school/college in the corridors on the way to calls just say to her "Hey, didn't you say you liked bowling?" She'll say yes "ok cool well I haven't been in ages and i'm not going on my own and your the only person I know that likes it, so want to come?"

I don't know how you are with girls, obviously your not too shy, but don't be a stinge and pay for her if she goes with you.

 

like shoopadoop i am a little confused what exactly you mean by hooking up....sex?make out? other?

in any event, i would recommend getting to know her the old fashioned way...talking. Talk to her like you would any other girl you might like that you havent hooked up with....get to know her. ask her on a date or to a party...and go from there.

good luck, my friend

 

So basically your just asking if you should go out with her/take things to the next level? To be honest that call is really 100% up to you. If you think that she is the right girl for you, and really like her as well, then why not give it a try. From reading what you wrote, I'm guessing that she is pretty into you, and you seem to like her as well so I say go for it.

With that said you still need to take some thing into consideration, with the most important being that this could possibly mess up the friendship between you two if things end badly. By the sounds of it you two are pretty good friends, and you have to ask yourself if you want to risk that by taking it to the next level.

Hope this helps, and good luck!

 

Thanks for the input guys. I think I'm just going to keep talking to her normally in school and over AIM. By hooking up I meant making out, sorry that wasn't clear. It probably would have gone further but I was in a public club.

 

Hook-up with her, and then ask her if she wants to take it to the next level

 

All you did was make out. Don't get carried away and feel like it's a huge deal. Keep flirting with her, be more aggressive than before, but nothing overboard. You don't need to be "going out" to hang out. Have her over to your place and watch a movie together, or just have a drink together. Talk to her, take interest in her. Don't just expect that because she made out with you at a party once that she is yours next time.

 

Thanks for the advice guys. I agree with you R2P, and I've had many one time hookups, but apparently she really likes/wants me (according to friends of friends) so I'm just going to keep flirting and soon invite her over.

 

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