Hey guys. I need your help. GUYS only please :\

Ok so what does it mean when a guy..like...I dont know. Okay, so theres this guy I kinda like. And...I THINK he likes me? maybe not though. He's really just...like sometimes he talks to me like hes crazy about me, then when we hang hes a real jerk...maybe hes bipolar? idk.

 

He's 2 faced.

Find someone else worth your time.

 

Sounds like he is immature. How old is he, because that's what boys do in middle school, when they don't know how to act.

 

lol well we're almost in high school..hes nearly 15. :\ And thanks Gohan thats what I was thinking. :\ But there really arent any other guys im into at my school. all the awesome guys live out of state/country lmao. And im not depserate or anything. I really dont mind being single. It just drives me crazy...

 

Well I'm 24 and had 2-2 year realationships go bad and I know a few guys that are my friends who treat their gf like shit around people but when it's them alone they're like "oh sorry baby" but just a heads up be single and focus on school and get good grades and maybe you'll end up going to a different school in a year or 2.

 

I have nearly straight A's, because I take medicine for my A.D.H.D. It makes me really boring lol. And yeah I was gone for about 1 hour because I just talked to him which ended in me slapping him across the face for him telling me I wasnt worth it. -.-

 

Guys and girls your age shouldn't really have these kind of problems lol. To be honest, I don't think it's the right time yet. But of course, people mature at different ages.

 

I "matured" in 6th grade. lol! And im older than I seem...:\ trust me. And yeah I know we shouldnt have these problems, but we do. High School drama to the EXXTTTRRREEEMMMEEE.

 

He's trying to act badass infront of you. Forget him, boys who act like that are almost always a bad idea.

 

yeah i already broke it off. But still :\

 

hes probably not bipolar. being bipolar does not make u think 2 completely different ways like that. also as far as the jerk thing goes, i mess with my girl all the time...i dont do it to look cool or anything...i just make a lot of jokes and cracks....unfortunately my gf sometimes takes the jokes seriously and thinks im being mean when in reality i am doing it to make us both laugh and keep a light mood, etc. it is common for a guy, however, to act like a jerk to his girl while in the presence of other peers, ppl, etc.

sounds like the problem already solved itself. sorry it turned out like that. and good luck in the future. your young and have plenty of time.

 

I recommend you trying to find someone else, it may be a confidence issue, and trust me... you don't want a guy with low self confidence.

 

There are more fish in the ocean.
Keep fishing

 

Not worth it, find someone else.

 

Even though your problem is basically over, I'd just like to point out that this could very well be it. I know I kind of did this to girls, by accident. I'd treat them really well, but then they'd make one comment or flirt with another guy, and I'd completely not talk to her.

 

You nailed the fish in the coffin right there. Guys tend to joke around more than they should, and they say really stupid shit. But honestly, find me a chick that isn't a bitch and I'll find you a guy that isn't an asshole, and I bet they go hand in hand. Chances are, you have your bitchy moments, you're going to have to deal with whoever you end up with through their moments of being an asshole.

If it's too extreme, call it off, otherwise, deal .

EDIT: Need I also mention that you get once a month to be incredibly hormonal, bitchy, and really fucking stupid. Let us have our fun when we want, and we will tolerate your unholy, demonic evilness during your period.

 

Im infertile meaning: I cant have a period. Theres a long medical term for it, but Its weird and pretty rare I guess. So I dont have that once a month bitch problem. Though, that is a good point. And no its not like him teasing me. This is texting...: Kylie, I love you. Your so beautiful and when I see you I smile.

Real Life: Hey dumb ass.
In front of friends in Real Life: Hey slut. Go make me a sandwhich you worthless pile of shit.

 

Lot of younger guys do that.

They can be really nice, but when things get awkward, they tend to act kind of mean. Or when they're around their friends.

Being a "jerk" can sometimes seem like a defense mechanism :S

 

Ok well it doesnt matter. I ended it. I had to. He called me a dirty slut because I talked to my best guy friend, whos GAY and has been for 5 YEARS. So he got owned with a slap in the face and a kick in the balls.

 

Violence isn't the answer...I was about to post something siding with you because from what I see you're a nice young lady, but if that's how you act...you do realize what you exhibited is basically how he acts as well. So, maybe you two are a perfect match for each other. :idea: