Im not sure to be honest

Well there's this girl who i used to go out with, around a year and a half ago and i really fell for her. She finished me and went with somebody else who shes been with the for past year and a half.

I cant seem to let go of her, and its really annoying/upsetting/hurting when you see them together.

Recently we've been arguing for lame reasons and i tried to cut her out of my life but it just won't work because i always want to be friends with her ect. She says she cares about me and everything.

Am i just obsessed? or something.. i want to move on but cant and its really sad to be honest.

 

How old are you?

Anyways there are millions of girls out there to be with so don't let one girl bring you down.

Also shes the one who left you, so its only her who has something to lose.

 

I feel the pain brotha

 

in order to cut her outta ur life u gotta not talk to her bro it sux but its the only way sounds to me like she is givin u false hope ya know

 

Mind if I ask if you two were sexually active? Because from experience I know that after that connection is made, it is hard to just forget about the person if the physical activity was meaningful. I'm assuming that you guys did get to that and it basically is an obsession after you get it from someone because you had the privilege to be able to do such a action with someone else that meant something to you.

This bond between the two of you will create an obsession for wanting more of her. But sometimes people in relationships for a year + always look to get back that "first feeling" where they actually care about each other rather than just feeling relaxed around each other. By saying this, it means that she may have been bored with her boyfriend and had a little second though action with you, but then realized she had did something wrong and she wanted to go back to her boyfriend.

 

I had the same problem and I let the girl cheat on me multiple times before I moved on.

I just want you to know to be ready for anything, but you don't need to let go till she hurts you.

 

Just date new girls until the image of her burns out of your skull

 

you'll get over her with time

 

So many people out there are going through the exact situation. People all make it through in the end. Let time do the job.

 

Honestly, if you still have feelings after all this time, you have to talk to her, and make an attempt.

If you don't ever try, you will regret it, if you try and it doesn't work, then you can at least say you tried and move forward.