girl help

Well about a month ago a girl told me that she liked me alot and she wanted to go out with me but i sorta blew her off.. reason being im not really good with when it comes with girls and i get nervous/shy alot. the reason she thinks i blew her off was because people were talking behind her saying she was a whore, and for the longest time i just didnt talk to her at all and sorta blew her off everytime she wanted to talk to me so she must think im a huge asshole. anyways i regret not going out with her and i wish i could tell her that but she has a boyfriend now... do you think its to late to tell her how i feel? last thing i want to do is start another problem and all that drama bullshit.

anyways i think i fucked up and its to late to do anything now but i wanna hear your opinions..

 

You fucked that up pretty bad dude. I highly doubt she has any feelings left for you, as it was probably just a crush.

So sorry to tell you, but it's too late. The only thing you can really do now is just try to start talking to her, become friends, then when she breaks up with her boyfriend, be there for her, and eventually make your move and ask her out.

 

Sorry dude your boned

 

too late, but you could always go for the rebound

 

just wait for her to dump the bf then move in and attack

 

I think your right for just thinking that you lost your chance already, but if you knew she was worth your time you wouldn't have hesitated. Your reactions seem normal because what guy wouldn't be jealous of someone that they liked then they all of a sudden get a boyfriend and all you can think about i what they do together, and you wish it was you.

In my opinion it just seems to be a natural reaction by the average guy I think.

 

you should tell her the truth, though.

edit : but if she is genuinely happy with her boyfriend, like really happy, truthfully happy...

then i guess...it's too late =(

 

Tell her the truth and move on

 

Let it go, when she breaks up with the bf move in for the kill. Show no weakness. She wasn't good enough for you then but you have decided to let her in now that she is vulnerable and needs someone. That's your story, now stick to it.

Until then go practice on other girls, cause your original "whore" sounds pretty experienced.

 

Let her be with her boyfriend, they will break up soon DW. Don't make yourself feel bad, you chose to do that, and for what seems to be a "legitimate" reason.

Look i'm 15, 2 years ago i was so shy and i couldn't even touch a girls breast.
But i just thought to myself, "your only 15 once, may aswell live it up" and i did. That day i did sexual things with my girlfriend, etc.

It's not hard buddy, its alright to be shy, allot of girls like that, you'll be right bro.

 

To be honest, if the feelings are still there. You should go for it.

Ask yourself this, what do you have to lose? Nothing.

There are a million other girls out there