Am i Physically attractive?

Title says it all.

I am kind of shy. I dont usually put my self out their very much.
I have never had a girlfriend. Ever.
I talk to some girls in school but i dont really have the courage to ask them out...for fear of embarrasment.
Is it because im shy or im just not visually appealing?
Im very physically fit. I range from 135-140 and im about 5"8 almost 5"9 What should i do??

Dont flame this thread please.


Please move this to personal Support / assistance. I did not see it was in general discussion.

 

hats being physically attractive got to do with confidence.

I'm not gonna rate you but

you just have a small self esteem.

 

Picture is a bit small to judge but you look perfectly fine to me. I'm much the same, don't worry about it. I'm pretty sure it happens to all of us, you just got to build up the confidence, and one day you will meet someone who you can talk to without feeling shy or embarrassed.

 

Thanks for the advice

 

You're not bad looking bro. Just put yourself out there and just be confident. If you get rejected whats the worst thing that could happen?

 

Post a better picture, it's hard to tell from a small sideways picture.

 

Cleaned up and Moved, Note: Any more stupid, immature and insensitive comments will be infracted.

 

You can see from the picture there is nothing wrong with him. Everyone is beautiful one way or another, you just need to find the right person who sees that in you.

Good luck and I hope your confidence improves in the near future. :love:

 

I have confidence, but I need to be more outgoing. Thanks for the advice.

 

Then work on it. You are a handsome guy, use your powers for good ;P

 

if you put your mind to it you could get more girls than i could get hot dinners ^_^

 

Nothings wrong with you <3

Self confidence is a problem for a lot of people though, take baby steps to becoming more social. Girls seem to see a lot of shy guys as cute guys, so your ahead there . Just get around and talk to some people.

 

Just put yourself out there more; you'll never grow if you don't step out of your comfort zone every once in a while.

You're not great looking, but you're not bad looking. It's all about how you act.

 

You look great. You just need more self confidence

 

how old are you? Just curious.. i used to be the same way.. but i'm a hevier set dude.

Your size n shit iz gud! Man if i looked like you.. i'd be gettin every girl in my path!

 

I'd say experience is the best key. Whatever you'd think you normally do, do the opposite or bend it; getting close to a girl usually involves getting closer with her social group n all that shiz. How you start is more important than how you finish!

 

I have a sister and many girl cousins and I've ask them questions like whats most attractive to a girl and they all agreed that it was an interest in them. If you like a certain girl go ahead and ask her, whats the worst that can happen?

 

Girls don't look for the most handsome person to go out with (well most).

As long as your not fat or smelly, and if you have a personality girls like than your set.

 

Damn.. ya you're going to need a good personality cause you ain't gettin' anywhere with those looks

 

Sigh. Ignore this ass. You look fine, but he is right about personality, as in its very important. Most girls look for personality over looks, someone they share things with, and can get along with easily. Shy people TEND to have the best personalities, and are easy to become friends with if your not the shy one.