My Parents wont leave me alone.

Ok lets start with my parents are complete fuckwits and I dont like either of them...

The split up when I was 5, There Parents never got on, My Parents never got on but they still magaged to have me and it just makes me think why the fuck do I have to be born...

Well here is the probleme, I moved out over 6 months ago, when I was 15.

I Work, Pay my own bills & do everything by my self.

When I get up my Mum trys to ring to see if im still alive, (No Bullshit she does) I never answer... She is nothing but a slut who dosnt give to shits about any one besides her new *Boyfreinds* (Fuck Buddys).

My Dad, well he is almost the same. He calls to make sure I get to work, calls to make sure I got to sleep, Theese calls arnt because they love me its because they have nothing better to do... He has got 4 Kids to 3 Wemon.

My Mum and My dad had me and my Sister.
My mum then had cancer and was unable to have kids (Thanks fuck for that)
My dad Had a little boy that lives over 600 K's away and a little boy in England. I do want to see them more then once every 4 Years or when there born...

Ok, Now to the point of them not leaving me alone, They come to my unit and see what I am eating, They make sure Im in bed befor 10, They make sure all my bills are payed. (My Bills are about $12,000 Payed in advance), They call me on Bin day, Damn they even make sure my beds made...

And thats not even half of it. My Girlfriend went to Usa for 2 Months on some Hand Cream crap thing, but I am glad she did because its just so embarssing. I have been with her for 4 Years now and even she thinks there over protective of me.

What do I do? I have told them to get of my back, they just wont.

Things I have done, Talked, Yelled, Screamed, Punched, Pushed, Called Police, Moved, Changed Phone Number, Ran away, and well alot more things.

They just dont get it...

Any advice would help Thanks.

 

Dang bro, yes they have caused you alot of grieve and trouble.

But i can infer that they genuinely do care for you. There are many things they could do other than bother you, but they chose to bother you as they do care for you.

But, yes, too much care becomes annoyance, and they are indeed overprotective over you.

Maybe try to tell them nicely that you are a grown up already and you can take care of yourself?

 

Do not answer the phone. Do not open the door, etc. I would be mad at them like crazy.. :S

 

Well I am not sure if it's the same where you are at but.. In the United States you gotta be 18 to pay for utilities so in other words your parents are your Life Wardens until you turn 18.

Once your 18 tell them to fuck off and they can't do a single thing about it. At 15 they could tell you to come back home or something even more annoying.

 

Thats hasnt worked the last 490267 Times...

The both got a key I dont no how. I dont want to change locks but Im thinking about it.

 

Well Im 16 Now, and I hvan't ever had an isue with paying for stuff, All you need is a visa and the Bills can come rolling in.

 

Change locks for gods sake, tell them that if they ever want to talk to you again, they have to follow youre rules, which would be for example

1.- Just call once a day or twice a week or whatever.
2.- ASK first before coming.
3.- etc,etc,etc.

 

Honestly, talk to them and explain you're not their kid that much etc.

You can also legally not be their kid anymore ? That's a good option then you can sue them etc if needed.

 

Try answering the phone, and telling your mom how you don't believe she actually cares for you.

Tell them both that as long as you promise to call/receive their calls once a week, that they need to leave you alone.

Hope it all works out for the best man!

 

I dont want to talk to them, once a week is 1 to many times a week....

I have talked there just so stupid and wont leave me alone...

 

Honestly they are trying to do the right thing for you. It may be incredibly annoying but if your kid leaves at the early age of 15 they must be at least some what worried and want to check up on you to make sure your doing alright.

If you really don't want them coming to your house all the time just tell them your on your own now and you don't need them. Not only that but you don't want them either. If they still come by you can call the police if it gets out of hand. Good luck man.

 

I don't know where you live but where I live as long as you don't have a court order you have no rights until you're 18. Such as getting a place, or a obtaining a credit card. In all honesty you're really young, your parents are trying and you should feel lucky. Most kids don't have that option of going back, they just end up on the street. My only opinion is that parents sometimes make mistakes but if they're trying to connect with you let them. At least you have a Father that calls.

 

I Understand them trying to look out for me but fuck, I go out with mates and they need to no everything and when I do talk to them They just winge or get up me for somthing. Its a loose loose what every I do...

 

Try to convince them to get a Tweeter account and they can always keep up with you jks.

Anyways well Voda your only 16 so you should feel pretty privileged that your parent care about you that much, if you don't live with them then try to talk to them to give you a little space, but try to keep in contact with them.

When I moved out my mom was calling me every couple of days seeing how I was doing, I didn't really ever answer and I'd return the calls about a week later "I'm terrible I know >.<" But now she only calls about once or twice a month, they'll learn eventually its hard to let your child "grow up" ya know imagine if you were in their position.

 

LMFAO, Im glad I could atleast get a Laugh out of this thread

LOL...

Well its 6 Am and my dad & Mum have already called me, My Dad told me "You better not have been out all Night" My Mum Told me to make my bed.

See what I am dealling with?

 

Tell them to stop treating you like a child, that you pay your bills every month, etc.

 

Are you fucking retarded? How can you not see they still care for you. Yes they made a lot of mistakes int heir life but they do all that because they care for you. You think people have nothing to do but call their sons and remind them to do things. If you get annoyed too much just tell them to stop treating you like a child. You are still too young. I don't know what country you are form but in the U.S, when your 16 your parents still treat you that way. You're not the only one getting annoyed by your parents. God, I hate how people think they are the only ones dealing with this stuff. I also hate the fact that people betray their parents like sue them or something. Your parents are the people who raised you. If you hate your parents that much and can't respect them I think you're fucked up.

Just my opinion, I don't want any arguments with people.

 

Lets start with, Reading the thread first.

Calling me is ok, But they just want to Arguee and tell me im doing wrong, They dont care they do it and think its a big deal and shit.

O btw, Maybe you shouldnt be In this section if you going to be a fuckwit.

 

Your early independence has made you arrogant. I suggest you respect others before you expect respect for yourself.

Back to the matter at hand, I agree that they are being overprotective but at the same time, at least they care. Be content with what you have. All you have to do is mind them for a few more years until you're 18 and then you can finally do something about it. Tell your girlfriend your plans. At least she'll be relieved.

Live it out, and look forward to the brighter future.

Good luck.

 

This ^

He was trying to help you. My parents get me Pissed alot but do i complain? No....They care for me...Like your parents do for you. Dont say im a fuckwit with your ignorant crap..Because im trying to help you. Your 15 im 18, Im more wiser then you. Once your parents are gone you will Miss them...Believe me...

Dont be ignorant and call me Idiotic names a 15 year old can come up with because you are being ignorant when you do so and you are stooping down to try to make up for your faults.

Anyways...If you do not like them...Change the Locks.....Dont answer the phone. If they repeatedly call you, then tell them not to call you.