Idiots at School

You need to Punch whoever is leading the pact, and I'm serious if you hit him and hit him really good, possibly make him bleed, others will be embarrassed, and trust me no one else will want to have to fight, no one likes to actually fight only if they absolutely have to, you do, it's the only way that they'll stop you can try giving it back to them, whatever they tease you about, like if they call you a homo or something, tell them that's not what his mom last last night in bed, and then follow up immediately by saying, oh sorry want me to leave the bitch out of it? Don't let him respond and say okay okay she's out, she's out man.. what time do you want me to bring the bitch back? It may seem very mean or cheesy to bring his mom or something into it, and it will probably piss him off, but who cares, it shows that you aren't going to take any bullshit from anyone. I don't condone making fun of peoples mom, but in this case it's saying whatever you can to make others feel embarrassed and want to back off you. I still suggest hitting the main guy though if ignoring them doesn't work.

 

Tell someone. No matter how embarrassing you may find it, bullying will NOT stop unless you TELL SOMEONE who has the power to stop them.

 

I thought it might be friendly banter, but it seems like you're taking it as if they don't like you. Have you tried to get along? Find a common interest (i.e. sports, video games, partying) with one of them?

I did that with the group I had in my classes for 2 years (I'm a junior) and now we're inseparable. And if you get them to like you, and you still don't like them, you can destroy them from the inside!

Don't listen to the people telling you "don't snitch", it's a silly excuse to avoid getting help. It's some stupid honor rule a good number of people abide by. And violence- it usually makes things worse, trust me...

 

I know you said that your problem was over, but I had some similar experiences, let me tell you about them...:

When I was younger and first started school, I was bullied (ever since about the first week). I would always get punched, made fun of, pushed around, etc. At that time I NEVER stuck up for myself. I told the principal, teachers, my parents all to find that it made it WORSE. Yeah, WORSE. It wasn't until about grade 3 that I made friends with someone in the "cool" group. Nonetheless, I was still under everyone. Normally grade 3 guys would poke fun at eachother but it was worse for me. I was the "wrestling dummy" for everyone to test their moves on, I was the one that got pushed around, blame etc when something went wrong. Essentially, I was still a loser. All throughout my life I was pushed around. That kept on till about grade 8 when I started doing drugs. More people accepted me and I was bullied less, but I was still bullied, only verbally, though. When I quit drugs about a year later (it was ruining my life big time), someone said to their friend that I called him a "paki" (he's actually from East India) when he was stoned and forgot he said it... So I was almost mugged about 15-20 times by a group of 15-25 wiggers/wannabe gangsta's. During that period I lived in fear. I was almost stabbed, killed, etc. I never stuck up for myself because I didn't know how. When it eventually blew over (when I got my ass kicked), I never wanted to go out. Everyone would make fun of how I got my ass kicked and stuff. A year later, when I was about 15, this guy kept making fun of me. He would harass me constantly. He and his friends kept calling me a "skinny jean faggot" "emofag" and kept telling me to go kill myself, even a few times he threw rocks at me off a walking bridge. He even said things about the girl I was with at the time. He kept this up for about 6 months. Then one night when I was walking home from a community center thing for teens, he followed me and called me a faggot again. All my life I was told to just walk away. But I finally realized, what good is walking away from people like this if you know it will just make them take advantage of you and make your life as close to hell as possible? I went up to him and told him "Apologize". When he saw that I wasn't scared of him, he went on to try and tell me it was someone else he was with (he was only with 1 of his friends at the time). I went on to ask him to apologize and told him that if he doesn't, he should at least leave me alone. When I mentioned what he said about my girlfriend, then my friend from the center come along. The guy started getting the shakes and got scared, so he eventually apologized and we both got on our way. But when he was down the street about half a kilometer away, he went ahead and insulted me again. So I ran to him and told him straight out "I'm not standing for your god damn bullshit you useless cunt. I'm letting you walk away from this, cause I don't want to fucking fight your sorry ass. Now get the fuck away from here and never talk to me again." When I said that he pushed me, and called me names. So I pushed him back and told him to get away. He eventually said "don't fuck with me yo, you stupid tupac bitch ho. I'm not someone to be fucked with, I fucked people up, nigga" (he's white, by the way). So then I grabbed his collar and shook him telling him hes a useless prick and stuff and that he better leave, and when he does to leave me alone. He pushed me and tripped me on the ground then preceded to punch me on the temple 4 times... Luckily I grabbed his arm when he swung the 5th time and used it to get up. Then when I was up, I cracked him in the face 3 times, punched him in the stomach, kneed to the nose and upercutted him to the chin... He ran away CRYING. Not kidding guys. CRYING. This 15 year old was CRYING after this. He ran on a city bus crying his eyes out. Anyways, 6 days later, the cops came to my door and arrested me. I got fingerprinted, everything. My court date was delayed 3 times (I had to wait 6 months) and throughout that time, I was not allowed to talk to my best friend because he was a witness AND I wasn't allowed outside passed 7 PM. I was charged with Assault and got a peace bond. I almost got 1 year probation for it and if I violate the peace bond, I'm facing 6 months to 1 year jail time.

The outcome of this is that nobody fucks with me anymore. I was fucked with all my life but now, everybody just keeps their mouth shut about me. I don't give a fuck what people say, but if they take it so far as to bully me, they know I'll say something. Don't be scared to stand up. If you get your ass kicked, at least you'd have shown that you have the courage to defend yourself. Also, if you are going to fight, make sure its a fair fight, none of that surprise sucker punching someone from behind. That's just low.

 

LMFAO the situation isn't funny but the advice is so fucking funny.

 

Best thing to do would be to tell an elder.

 

Honestly just have your upperclassmen buddies help you out. Even if you just know somebody from a while back ask them. Im a senior and if someone came up to me and told me whats happening Id be happy to kick some bullies ass and im sure alot of others would aswell.

 

Try being nice to them, Sounds stupid but whenver a kid i know is geting bullied i give him a cig to give to the bully everyday, it usualy stops it.

 

lol thats so true!

Just act like your better than them.. and joke with them.. be like wtf? nigger just say stupid shit AND BE AS SARCASTIC AS YOU CAN .. pretend you dont give a fuck and joke when they joke.. itll piss them off and who knows they may even start to like you lol

cocky = good..

sorry if its not much help =/ never really had a problem... but yea there is always that 1 chuncky kid lmao

 

Honestly? Don't get into shit with them, tell a counselor, or piss them off to a point where they throw a punch first and get them expelled.

 

Wind him up until he throws a punch. Make sure you have people around as witnesses. Go and report him, and he'll get in a lot trouble. I wouldn't risk being violent unless you absolutely have to to defend yourself.

 

Honestly, it seems ignoring them won't help. The best thing to do is retaliate. Talk back to them. If you're strong, pick out the leader and set an example out of him. They should leave you alone once they realize you won't take it anymore.

 

From my personal experience, you have a couple of options.
1. Ignore them.
I know from past experiences that they are looking for a reaction (Even if they don't consciously know it). They want you to retaliate. It makes it fun for them.

If you ignore them, eventually they'll move on and stop since it gives them no satisfaction what so ever.

2. Stand up to them. There's really nothing to be scared of. If you get beaten up (Which you may do) It's not going to be you that get's into trouble, after they get their asses handed to them by the school (Or social situation your in) they should stop.

If they don't beat you up (Hopefully they wont) then at least you've shown to them you won't take it, and eventually you will have had enough and they'll stop.

3. Tell your parents/school teachers. They can diffuse these situations pretty easily .

 

Make friends with one of the cuter girls and hang out with her a lot. When they pick on you when your near her, she'll bitch and complain.

/thread.

Bitches+solutions=resolved.

 

I've been bullied now and then for stupid things (being computer literate, glasses, braces which are off now, being thin), and honestly, the best thing to do is to just laugh it off and ignore them.

If you're being physically bullied, get dedicated and start working out, or learn a martial art.

I'm not kidding.

Your confidence levels skyrocket when you THINK that you're putting more in to make yourself stronger, faster, smarter. Plus you'll be able to kick their ass in a fight. I, myself, started learning karate and then quit because it got boring. I'll probably take up judo or something like that soon.



And seriously, man, tell someone. They're doing it because they think they'll go under the radar. You tell someone, and they'll make fun of you, probably in public. Your response should be something simple like "Yeah, good one dickhead.". Make them feel stupid. Somewhere in them, psychologically, they're covering for their own inadequacies (loud voices and bullying can be a lack of self-confidence). By making them look stupid in front of everyone, they're less likely to have a go at you if you're able to stand up for yourself.


Hope I've helped.

PM me if you need any help or want more information.

 

I'm pretty sure his problem is solved.

 

Correct.

 

i know how you feel, i had problems at school aswell especily when i was younger, the fact is theres nothing you can do really. there will always be blacks and pakis who hang around in groups and are generally assholes to smaller and less confident people. just try to avoid them and keep friends around you. feel free to add my msn if you wana talk about it

 

Just curious gohan, Is life good for you now that you are at highschool or do people still tease you.

Anyway on topic I personally have never been bullied, I was in what you could maybe call the popular group. A few of my friends were extreme bullies to the I guess you could call them nerds. The only reason they picked on them was because they were either smart arses or fought back, So my advise to you is just ignore them, Think of your future. They will fail you will succeed. Good luck man , I'll pray for you.

 

Wow. Nothing like this ever happens in New Zealand. Any form of physical abuse is reported to police immediately, because it is assault which is against the law. They will get suspened (in some cases expelled) and dealt with. So nobody really does anything like that here.

This is how I deal with it: use your brains and wit to get out of hallway situations. If they try and hit you say things like "Oh does that make you feel better picking on weaker individuals, yeah you're real tough" things like that which make them think or make them look weak. You are smarter than them. Do not let them get to you.