Everything Seems to be going Down Hill?

I left school Pretty early Befor I even Finished Grade 9, I left Because all I was doing is getting in trouble, Skipping School, Fighting waisting teaches time... I felt it was the best for every one including my self who wasnt learning anything, My Dad & Mum Split up when I was 5 Hasnt ever botherd me But my Mum & Dad both got re-Married My Dad in the time has been with two other wemon One over in england and tthe other over 600km Away I havnt really ever seen either of my Brother and Being the Oldest of 4 Is Just hurting me for some reason... My Mum got re-married to a man who had 3 Boys who were all younger then me and she was with him fir 9 Years its been about 6 Months scince she Devorced him and even though I hated hes little boys for some reason its just all hitting me at once that I miss them... My Mums seeing this new guy I hate the ****** I pretty much trashed my mums house I hate him so much I moved out of there as I just couldnt handle him... I moved in with my dad who was living with my Grandparents who are so old fashion and think everything I do Is bad, I lost it and decided to find a job, I found a Full time job I am a 2nd Year apprentice atm I found a little shity place In the guts of city I have to walk or bus it every were, I have pretty much no family. I recently got in a car crash and was told I had to go see a doctor the doctor told me I had to ge get x-rays and go see a Phisyo, I was told it would be all Payed by compo I confirmed this and they said yes it can all be paid for... its been well over a month science then and I have got a phone call saying its all be rejected and I have been given a bill of $4,500 I felt as though my life was over I feel I have no were to go I have no money, what do I DO???

Thanks if you read all that, kinda stressed out atm, Probs full of Tons of spelling mistakes and Jumbled up, I Just felt I Had to get it out...

 

Don't worry about it too much. Being on your own at a young age is only going to make you stronger. As for the $4500 doctor bill. They can't collect something you don't have my friend. And I'm almost sure if they are suppose to cover it and don't you can have a lawsuit on that. Just try to stay in good spirits and have fun. Being on your own at our age is hard but it'll be easy later on in our lives as we will already be strong enough to handle the real world. If you need anymore advice, just pm me.

 

Thanks Man.

The money isnt to hard to come up with its just alot of money ill never see again...

 

I think you aught to try to contact your brothers, maybe they are waiting for you to contact them so you can speak to them... theres nothing bad in trying is there? With the bill, i'd just say work it off and pay it to avoid any trouble with police and whatnot. If you want to talk to somone add me at [email protected] .

 

There 5 and 7, They dont really understand and its not as simple as that there mothers want nothing to do with my dad or any one arounf him including me.

 

Oh, maybe you could try talking their mothers into letting you speak to them?

 

Tryed that, My dad even spent $60,000 I getting Custordy of they 1 was allowed 1 was not.

 

Sorry to hear all this man. Don't feel like you're alone. Although family is important, it is not a necessity. You're doing a fine job living independently. I wish I could say I was responsible enough to live by myself. You seem to have a nice job, but lacking fun. You can go to any clubs around the area that you might like, or if you're a christian, join a church group or something. It will help you feel connected

 

My dad spent over $100,000 + CAD on trying to get my brother... *sigh*... Anyways, I kinda know how you feel in some parts :/. I honestly don't think there's much you can do, but remember everything will eventually pull through. Have hope, man

 

Sorry your having problems man. I have never been in a very similar situation so my advice is just from my view point so take it as you will. It sounds like issues with your parents may be getting int the way of what really matters. Don't get me wrong family is important but if you have some other issues like a big bill due then take the full time job to get that out of the way and to pay for other problems. I would also highly suggest finishing your high school career and if possible going to college. It will help a lot in future situations like jobs.

Once your figure those issues out then I would try to talk to your mom and let her know what you feel about here new boy friend. Don't be rude about it but try to let her know that you think it's a bad decision getting involved for such and such reasons. She may just blow you off but if that happens then there really isn't much you can do about since it is here life and not yours.

 

I left school 2 & Half years ago, Have a full time Job, Thanks.

 

With the bill, are you over 18 (maybe 21 in the US), if you are and cannot pay it they may press for bankruptcy which will make loans and so on very hard for you in the future. As shitty as it sounds it may be worth asking your dad or mum for a loan to pay it.

Edit: Reading the rest of the thread it looks like you have a full time job, you should be fine xD

 

How old are you? It's never too late to go back to school. You really should at get your high school diploma or else you may have trouble finding jobs in the future. If your too embarrassed to attend classes, you can always take online classes to get the credits?