Boys = Assholes?

So are you saying boys are emotionless? because last time i checked, only girls have estrogens. That would mean that boys would NEVER laugh/cry/show any emotions.

 

I'd say i'm pretty emotionless. It's not my fault though :/

 

Because most of you act like jerks. :huh:

 

Testosterone

 

I always get happy, sad or angry etc, we are bought up not to show weakness (crying) I myself did judo when I was little and still do to this day, when I first started I was 10, my dad used to take me and when I injured myself I used to cry and go to my dad, he used to tell me to shut up and stop crying, I could only show emotion when my mum was there.
I thank my dad for this though as I can now take a lot of pain and I don't make any expressions, it all depends how you are raised in my opinion.

 

Why does it sound like you think that's a good thing?

 

I don't think you can generalize the whole population of men over a few assholes.

 

Just a media sterotype, and many guys cover up their true feelings/personality to look more masculine around other guys and girls, thinking it will get them more friends then girls.

When its the exact opposite, girls would prefer someone who acts like themself around everyone.

I myself, am not a stereotypical guy, very emotional, i show my morales, and being masculine is no where near the top of priorities on my list.

 

Heres the short and simple answer boys are consider assholes because If I don't like you I'll make it clear and often times do something mean where as girls are more secretive and talk behind each others backs and such.Secondly were considered heartless because I son't show my feelings, because that wouldn't be masculent, I'm not going to cry over a break up!

 

Because I take judo seriously, showing pain makes the oponent feel confident, if they are good enough to get me into an arm lock I don't want them to know it hurts, if they know it hurts they will lock it on harder, if they think it's not hurting me there is a chance they will let go, giving me a chance to move and get one o them.

 

^+1 rep for you even though you banned.

 

guyx neva show there emotions in open public.. they act strng and stuff like tht... they show tht they dont give a damn! .. thtx the only reason... nd girls shows their emotion to every1!

 

I have feelings. I don't really show them, since that would make me look weak in other peoples eyes.

Altough, I sometimes cry myself to sleep in the nights.

 

That was pretty ignorant.

 

It is sort of true. You see on television and other forms of modern media, men are stereotyped to be uber-strong and uber-unemotional. Though not all men in the world are like that, they would attempt to replicate the behaviour of the typical movie man.
That said, men would act less emotional and attempt to behave very coldly towards people.

 

Societies influences+testosterone+man's nature=asshole.

 

Elaborate on the "man's nature" part. What is it?

 

Women are turned off by nice emotional guys who treat them well, but get wet for hard asses who just don't give a fuck. And then they complain about all guys being douchebags. Trust me, I was a nice guy once and just wanted to have a girlfriend, and I never got laid. Then I manned up and now pussy comes easy but every girl is just so boring that I would never want to be in a relationship with any of them, so now I look like a douchebag hooking up with girls and rejecting them later. It's sad but that's life.

 

i dont really talk to girls unless they confront me... and if they do i just talk to them normally i dont think guys are assholes its just the way the world is guys have to act tougher... we control the goverments and pretty much the ``Free world`` in that matter.

 

We are superior we are brought up with our fathers controlling our mothers.

I'm not emotional at all really I was brought up a real man. My mum suggested I join the army once haha!

We are made to protect women and children. We are genetically stronger. We have to show authority in a girls presence.. being over emotional usually ties up with low confidence which girls don't go for..