So... My life's pretty much going to shit.

I know I haven't been that active lately, just haven't seemed to feel like it, but I've decided to become more active since I found out my good friend Greg got OMM and market mod :O Anyways, yesterday was a really shitty day, which started with my cousin not getting the K (Ketamine) which I really wanted to try. Whatever. My sister ended up going to the hospital with a consussion cause she's a dumbass. Now, I find out this morning, my BEST friend's most likely moving 3 hours away to live with her Dad because she came home stoned last night and her mom got pissed. I mean, wtf. We're best friends, I like her ALOT, and she likes me too. The only reason we're not going out is because she's kinda dating another guy. Anyways, at school today she was crying the whole time and wouldn't stop hugging me. This is starting to get really fucking shitty, and there's nothing I can do about it. She's grounded, phone taken away, not allowed on facebook, etc, so I have no means of communication with her until Tuesday at school. And she's most likely moving sometime today or tomorrow. Help me out sythe. The last time I saw her before today was Monday too, because I didn't go to school. I miss her alot right now, and I know I'm gonna miss her ALOT more if she moves.

 

Go see her at her house?
I'm sure her mom's not gonna kick you out especially when she knows you're good friends and she's moving.

 

Idk, apparently she's PISSED. And I'm not allowed to chill with anybody today, maybe tomorrow, but idk, she's pretty fucking pissed.

 

Only thing you can do is go spend time with her during her last days with you. You guys can arrange to see each other once a month or talk to each other on a phone or facebook, but it won't be the same. But at the same time I can tell you, you will eventually stop talking to her and end up forgetting all about her in a few years.

 

Pretty much nailed the pin on the head there, it really sucks that it happened and getting over it is really going to suck. Especially when she starts making friends over there and won't have much time to chat with you etc, maybe you could make something out of it during the last day, ask her out or something. Your options are not that great anyhow :s

 

I know, the problem is that she's probably already gone. It's fucking stupid and sucks.

 

Dude I feel pretty bad for you because this has happened to me before, try going to her house now, it's worth a shot dude. And who knows, as long as she is your best friend she will try hard to keep in touch with you.

 

Keep talking her through FB like I said. Give it time, she'll make new friends and she will eventually stop talking to you. I know it sounds horrible man, but this shit happens, and you should know that now more than ever. If you ever want to talk to try and get her out of your head for a while, PM Me.

 

I come from a slightly different background from OP I assume (I moved 14 times before I graduated high school), so from my experience, I would suggest starting to let it go mate. Long distance doesnt work, and it slowly deteriorates over time. Best to end it on a good note now, and in the future if you ever cross paths, you can look back fondly on the fun times you had.

 

Yeah, Irt's just.. Idk we're pretty good firends, she's awesome.

 

Well...I mostly say this on every thread....Your life isnt that bad....
I dont want to Do the whole kids in africa speech....
But that sucks..But you have to move on.

 

Do you honestly think your life is turning to shit because of some high school drama?

 

My advice would be to not allow the last few days/hours to spin you out of control. Take a break, relax and attempt to find something else to occupy yourself with till Tuesday. Doing anything now and/or prior to Tuesday will just make matters worst not only for you, but possibly her.

These sort of events/life challenges happen and if you can learn to place some space/time between you and the incident it allows you to better put things into perspective. Come Tuesday, you'll honestly see a better outlook. Smile Man!

 

I would barely call this a "life turning to shit" believe me I've been through "shit" and know the definition.


True...relationships ending hurt, but you are just friends m8 and havent even exchanged "I love you's" I read the previous advice and I agree with plznate and gohan...this will be over before you know it...and when you experience true mutual love in which you recieve 100% for your 100% you will laugh at this I guarantee.

Just keep your head up and cherish the memories.

 

By best friends, I pretty much mean were dating. We've exchanged I love you, etc alot, trust me. And Gohan I'll pm u to talk once I figure out if she's moving for sure and if she is I will. Thanks for the help guys, it doesn't help that I haven't smoked weed for awhile and haven't had a smoke in 2 days. Hooly shit. I'm fucking dirt broke too.

 

Well being dirt broke is another problem lol. I was going to say smoke a joint for advice but I didnt know if you did or not lol

 

Haha nice. I wish I had one right now ):

 

Chin up!

 

Lol. Anyways, ended up chillin with my dealer and osme friends, one who moved to Newfoundland and got back today after like 6 months. Pretty fucking baked

 

haha so your feeling pretty at ease for the moment then eh?