What should I do?

This is a continuation of my other threads.

This girl and I officially broke up about a month ago, but as of last week Tuesday, I want basically kill her.

She has been starting lies and rumors. On top of that, she got TWO people to call me and start threatineng me!

Over what? A ring that SHE BOUGHT ME as a gift, she wants it back but I will never even if brought into court it was a gift I she has no right to ask for it back.

The fact that I refused made her get those people to do those things, although I bought her one two and told her I wanted her to keep it?


Tonight I texted her ONE message saying this =

Fishy is the person we knew that after we got into a fight she blocked everyone and starting rumors and lies.

The girl I am in this ordeal thing SWORE to never do these things but now is.

I am fed up with the lies and I am getting nothing but shit from people at school. I still have people on my back and will help but I seriously want to hurt her. Although, I will never hit a women out of anger or purpose...

What should I do? It's fucking pissing me off too....

 

give her the ring back if shes not with you its not really anything anyways

 

I can offer good advice but it really depend's on your age, and also if there is any other reason behind you keeping the ring other than it being just a gift?

 

I want to keep the ring because if she takes it back, it shows she wasted my time, even her mom says I should keep it. The fact that I tried and took her crap gives me the right to do what I will with it.

 

Is it a valuable ring?

 

You're really just making yourself seem pathetic in the end. If the ring has no real value to you other than just making a point, because that sounds so childish then give it back to her, and cut off all communication with her. You're really just digging yourself in a hole, and digging it deeper and deeper as long as you let this situation carry on.

And as for her threatening you, it seem's that you and her mom have some good communication toward's one and another, tell her what's been going on and if she care's at all about you two, she'll get involved.

 

If the ring has no sentimental value to you, I believe you should return it, and go back to your life without her. She's throwing tantrums like a child wanting something, but you can't do anything about it besides holding the ring from her. However, you holding the ring from her angers her - and now she's hurting you and your reputation. You may as well just give back the ring and get it all over with.

 

Get a restraining order against her and the guys. If she still continues her actions, she will go to jail. Problem solved.

 

Sell the ring. It's yours. That'd piss her off more than keeping it.. If you're wanting to piss her off.

If not, just tell your close friends that all the rumours are bs, give the ring back, and just move on with life.

 

Well reading this and yeah @Matt Hasty, her mom and I are very close, still are even after we broke up. Now I talked to her last night, and she said I do not have to give the ring back and I can do whatever I want with it, so I am selling it. It is gold as well so it will get hopefully a decent cashback.

As far as those threats, as far as I know the people that can attempt to kick my ass that are her "friends" are as well mine if not more of friends, so I am better off, on top of that I have more friends. Like I said, shit at school, I am pretty well known at my school, but certain people that do not know me continue these rumors, I can stop them, for one cause I have many people to back me up.


I hate the people that feel the need to try to ruin others lives. I have both her dad and mom to go to if she keeps going, they know she is a liar and "brain fucked", I know I can get passed it. Pawn Shop here we come.

 

Well if you want revenge you already know what to do that would effect her the most. When being with somebody you learn the persons fears wants etc. and you probably know what would hurt her the most. So why dont you do that?

 

I know what would hurt the most, but that one detail I will not tell publicly is the problem, cause I know and her parents don't.