Split up with my girlfriend.

Don't ask why, please. I won't talk about it.
Recently, I split up with my girlfriend and we agreed to remain just friends. I still see her every day and talk to her. However, I can't forget her. I find myself not attracted to any other girl other than her. I went out on a date with this other girl, Rachel, a while ago and throughout dinner, I kept comparing her to my ex.

Problem is, how do I forget her and move on?

 

Don't see her for a while, I understand your good friends, but try and grow distant, it'll be hard but it'll be worth it, especially if there's no hope of you both getting back together. But if there Is, you shouldn't deny your feelings, and maybe tell her how you feel.

 

Thing is, it's not so easy. I find I can't stay away from her, no matter how hard I've tried. I rushed to her house yesterday at night, when it was raining, just because she cut her finger pretty badly. She lives 10 houses down so I ran the whole way.

 

That's not your problem anymore. I'm sure there's others around her that could have dealt with her cut finger.

 

One word: Time.

 

You will never forget her, but with time you will find it easier to stop thinking about her.

 

Yeah time is the only thing...just chill out for a bit and remember one thing..Don't trip over a girl.

 

Stop being such a girl, and move on; find out how your ex is dealing with the whole situation, maybe she already found a new boyfriend. You can't really offer any advice if you don't know what happened. Of course if she meant a lot to you, you're always going to have "feelings" for her, but in all honesty you're to young and life's to short, stop dwelling over the small things and have some fun.

 

Time will heal your broken heart because you will eventually realize it's time to move on. I know you must feel like you still like her very much (or even love) but unless both of you feel the same way about each other, I don't see you going back together anytime soon. Just hang out with your guy friends or find a sport/activity that keeps you occupied to make you not think about her.

Also, trying to forget her would be a horrible idea. Even though your not together you can still remember the fun times being with her and remember that feeling but try not to over-do it because it will stir up your emotions again.

 

Well said, time heals everything.

 

Aw dude first of all, I am sorry to hear. Break ups are hard man. I understand that much. Believe me ....
The thing is you may Never forget her...I know that sounds like it sucks but the pain becomes dull. Eventually it becomes this feeling of appreciation for the other person. I still have feelings for my ex and can tell her to this day I love her, she took a place in my heart but I am not "in love" with her if that makes sense. You may fall out of love for this girl, but she will remain special to you, even when the pain is gone.
I hope you can let go of any bad break up vibes, forgive (not forget ..forgive) any wrong doings and just appreciate your ex-partner for the impact she has had on you. And vice versa.

Don't know if that helped or not but I just had to say somethin.

 

You sir, need to hang out with some friends, have a few beers smoke a couple bowls and chill. Trust me just need to chill and relax. Girls can be hard to forget about about and get over of but it can be done I believe in you Good Luck Man

 

Wait, is it the girl who had a jerk boyfriend you were talking about before? But anyways, just try your best to let go and think about a beautiful actress/singer you would want to go out with.

-LeetNeo.

 

Why do you have to be such a jerk on everything?

OT: Just wait it out. Eventually, you stop thinking about her.

 

well idk the circumstances, you could do one of two things in this situation.

1: you could try to work things out, try to get back together. Depending on the problem this could potentially be out of reach

2: try to avoid her without being obvious about it, if she usually takes a certain route around your school just trying taking a different one. eventually she'll realize you two arent friends anymore and will stop trying to talk to you.

 

I had the same problem as you... about 6 months ago the only way to get over it is to just not see her anymore trust me its to awkward and depressing talking to her like you guys are cool when you know your not...

 

Out of sight, out of mind my friend. Just give it time and try to focus your energy on something else as hard as it may be.

 

Not needed anymore as the OP is permanently banned.