Got into a bad fight with my ex.

I don't know why I'm posting this.. Maybe just to get it off my chest.

Anyways.. I broke up with my ex about a year or so ago. We broke up because my ex didn't want an open relationship, yet my ex cheated on me daily. After we broke up we started to hate each other, cussing each other out a lot.

Then we didn't speak to each other period.. for a year. soo a few days ago I went to the gas station to fill up my car (an 81 cutless supreme baby!). My ex saw me and then started to attack me. I didn't fight back because I wanted to confirm if I still had feelings for that bastard. All the employees and people watch as the one-sided fight went on..

After the beating, I left.. and that was it..

2 days later, at the same gas station my ex attacked me again (I was there buying a donuts and some coffee.)

So this time I got pissed off and went into a rage. I beat my ex with my fist a few times, kicks in the sides and etc. Then I went and grabbed the window wiper blade thing and beat that bastard with it. Then I got blood on my shirt and the police came.

I didn't go to jail because I was defending myself (tons of people witness the first fight 2 days before)

Anyways now I feel bad giving my ex an ass wooping and I think I still have feelings.

 

Before i say anything....Are you a boy or a girl....2nd....if your ex is a male adult and he beat you he can go to jail...

 

I am male.

 

You're a disgusting person, but then again who isn't? My only question is if your ex is a boy or a girl, because if she is a girl I doubt you'd need a winder wiper to restrain her. Try to remember that females are more delicate creatures, they're easily filled with anger and comparable to cats. She/he also has a right to be pissed, you asking for an open relationship is rather disgusting and inappropriate, just because you thought she/he was cheating on you daily doesn't mean, she/he was. You could be nothing but a silly insanely jealous boy, that doesn't know how to walk away. Explain your story better, please.

I mean no harm, with this reply. If I offended you in any way I apologize.

 

Why would you beat a woman? If she is female....you could have just calllen the police if she continued to beat you...you could have went in your car and locked it also..

 

Men don't hit women, for any reason. Unless of course your life is at stake, which it clearly wasn't (if she's trying to stab/shoot you).

You could have simply grabbed her arms, and stepped on her feet. Doesn't cause her too much harm, but she can't touch you. Then just call the cops and report her for assault. Or get someone else to hold her back.

 

Seriously... You beat a woman? A guy never hits a girl, unless his life is in danger.

For now, just ignore her. If she continues to assault you, you can file a police report and get a restraining order against her. She started it after all, so that probably means you'll get a successful restraining order.

But seriously, punching and kicking a girl is low.

 

I can't believe you people are defending my ex.. I was the one being attacked.. I was simply defending myself.

Also I never cheated on my ex.. My ex cheated on ME and told me that several times.

Also K was asking for that beating from the moment I got hit. I tried my best to let it go but being a bitch isn't something I'm good at.

 

I'm not sexist, but if anyone hits you, you have the right to hit back. It doesn't matter what sex either person is.

 

Oh wow be a man, and toughen up. Unless your girlfriend is a body builder; I highly doubt you were gonna get extremely hurt. Men are stronger then females, regardless of any sexist male testosterone comments its just facts. Never lay a finger on anyone especially females, even if it is for self defense. If you feel threatened be a man and remove yourself from the situation, Sticking around is just asking for trouble.

My advice to you, is to talk to any female in your life that you highly respect, and ask her if you have the any right to lay your hands on her, or any women, that is "mouthing off" or "hitting you". See what she has to say.

Once again I mean no disrespect, in this reply. There is just no way to sugar coat the situation.

 

People have different morals. Self-defense is self-defense. To everyone here who believes that men shouldn't hit women, fine. However, please remember that just because you believe something is right doesn't mean it is right. Being hurt isn't the issue - his ex clearly had the power go to her head. She needs to realize that he doesn't give a fuck if she's female, and will hit her either way. Assaulting someone just because you know that they won't fight back is cowardly.

Also, women can seriously hurt men. If a female was assaulting you with a machete, would you fight back? Women and men are equal, and should be treated so.

On topic: Don't feel bad. She started the fight, and you already went through a beating without fighting back. Chances are, if you didn't hit her she would continually assault you and could end up seriously hurting you, depending on how she is attacking. Just because women may not be generally as powerful as men doesn't mean they are restricted in means to harm others.

 

Indeed. But you didn't have to beat her till she was bleading, that's just mad, man. That was not a wise move, but... You shouldn't think about it too much. You can't change what you've done now, so just move on, mate. Good luck.

 

It's obvious that he's gay.
I'm not trolling, but no gender is EVER referred to.

You need to not go near that person again. Moving on is your best choice, no matter how much it hurts.

 

good beat dat bitch again, break her leg spit on her. write ur name with sperm on her forehead

 

My maan, he got the idea.


When you go into a deep rage you can't control yourself tho. But this dude kicked in her the ribs ahah, and beat her with a windshield wiper, that shits funny. You gonna need some therapy man, that's taking it beyond ordinary. Still find that funny tho, would piss me off too if i got a bitch coming at me 2 days in row after doing nothing wrong.

 

Guys.. I would never hit a female unless I, family, friends life was in danger. Other wise I would just use minimal force necessary to leave the situation.

This was my ex bf, not my girlfriend.

 

Jerry Jerry Jerry!

 

Sorry man. Not really sure what to do in this situation, but I think you tried to control yourself. You just reached the point that every human being has when he can't take it any longer.

 

Wow, nice. Way to beat a woman. You could of easily held her on the ground/ran away from her and called 911. I understand beating her was easily but that's messed up. You should be ashamed honestly.

 

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