More of a rant thread, just gotta get stuff out

Lets start off, First, I'm 18 years old, never been kissed, never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, never had sex, but I have lots of chick friends. No, I'm not gay at all. I find that I just fall in the "friend zone" with every chick that I talked to. It sucks ass, the women that I have always liked I have never said anything to at all about liking them until after I moved on from liking them. I just get extremely nervous I suppose, when I'm about to tell them I just choke up and go to a different subject. It sucks, I got no self confidence in myself, and I'm extremely afraid of being rejected by a chick or be labeled a "creeper". I don't think I am attractive (since I have been told this a few times in my life) or good looking at at all, or interesting in anyway, I barely have shit to talk about because I don't really do anything. I play in my band, go to school, go to work, and thats about it. I don't have my license (I'm actually taking my road test on 9/14), or a car. So I can't really go out and explore and experience different things.

And going back to woman stuff, over the past 2 months I guess me and one of my best friends have had a little thing going on. We've liked each other many times even leading back to Elementary school, and now we are both in College. But things I guess have never worked out but we have stayed best friends for years. But now I guess we sort of like each other again but its just not working out like all the other times and its extremely confusing.


Wow, I just read this and realized that this sounds completely depressing xD don't worry though guys, I'm actually a pretty happy dude, its just sometimes I get in one of those moods where I wanna just rant and about shit and this is one of those times lol.

I don't care if you guys don't respond, I just had to rant somewhere.

neschn out.

 

There's nothing to be ashamed of if you have "never been kissed, never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, never had sex". I am with you on that. It's not that no one asked me out. 4 girls have asked me out, but I refused simply because I am saving myself for the perfect girl. There's nothing wrong with being friends but small flirting once in a while will help you get some confidence

 

hey dude wont about that stuff. I had my first gf at 16, first kiss at 16. I still haven't had sex yet and Im 18, but Idc rly. Trust me, people like you are going to make a girl rlllly happy man.
Just DONT rush it. Get what you want in a girl and don't settle for less.
I can kind of understand where ur coming from though.
U seem like a good guy buddy. Just be yourself and ull find her...

 

Thanks guys! That made me feel a bit better =D My friends have told me that I would find someone perfect for me in the end if I just wait it out and I guess thats what I just gotta do.

Thanks for the kind words!

 

Don't worry about that "never kissed a girl" stuff, it doesn't matter, you're gonna make a girl really happy one day, and your time will come just like everyone else, life is tough enough without worrying about girls so just be happy and keep on living, the girls will come with time.

 

dude you know you're good looking, you just have to wait for that one girl that appreciates all the shit you do, and maybe you'll find one who likes BM!