I don't fucking care gawd...

ok well there's this chick who's pretty cool we were friends a few years ago in my hometown. She has a baby and a fiance now but I can tell by the way she emails me and whatnot she still kinda digs me although I don't care about her in more than a friendship sort of way.

...this might seem like a stupid question but ive spent 4ever debating it i hate it when ppl like me but i don't like them but still want to be friends - it makes everything so awkward yet i don't wanna straight out turn them down when they are only dropping hints.

So how the fuck are you supposed to do it I mean the hints make me feel all awkward but I don't know if I should straight out tell her i don't like her also I can't do the "I'm in a relationship" thing cuz every1 knows I'm single so WTF.

 

Well she probably just like you as a friend, or she want to be fuck buddies.

 

You sure she wants to be more than friends?

A) Tell her that she already has a fiance and you don't want her.
B) Get a girlfriend and use that as an excuse.

 

She's already got a baby and a fiance, If she gets pregnant again she defintely wouldn't like it, I say stop if it goes any further

 

Just stop before it goes any further pretty much

 

Why don't you wanna get with her? i mean, if shes all for you the i don't see what the holdup is. and your sig is too big

 

I say you should indirectly tell her that you don't want her....

"I'm glad that we can stay friends, and not have to be together. Even after what we've been through."

 

You have 2 options,u can be fuck buddies or you can just tell her that she already has a fiance,use that as an excuse.

 

If she has a baby, odds are she has beef curtains. You want nothing to do with that man.

 

Well she has a fella, and a kid? generally people don't want to completely destroy families just for a bit of fanny. Though many would, i respect the ones that don't.

 

"Ey, i'm single, i just like to go to the club and have a good time, i'm no homewrecker and that's that, we can chill but it aint gonna go anywhere far."

 

maybe she just needs someone to talk to and you're taking the wrong way

 

I tried this, thanks for the advice. She just delved into deeper and more desperate means which confirmed my idea that she liked me. So then I made plans with another chick to pretend we got back together and started asking for advice on my relationship with her... and she pretty much told me I should break up with her lol WTF. And I looked at her profile and after the convo she liked this...

"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else."

...i don't wanna be fuck buddies I'm not like that I only start relationships with people who I am attracted to their personalities looks is only a small part. Also she has a kid which is a huge turn-off for me.

 

First, some people are just friendly. If she's known you forever maybe you're mistaking her love for you as a friend into a relationship kind of love. Girls are going to love their friends differently compared to a guy.

Secondly, if she does dig you. Tell her she's a lying bitch and leave her alone. Don't be a house wrecker.

 

it wouldn't really be being a housewrecker her fiance is a bastard and they are gonna break up everyone knows it. but she's looking for an escape and im not going to be it.

anyways i think i can handle the rest of the situation on my own,
thx for the tips every1.

 

Whether her fiance is a bastard or not doesn't matter. It's about the kid.

 

i gues so.