Should I leave her alone?

just kick his ass if he tries anything. start doing push ups and shit. get some muscles. dont change around her. get her number. talk to her on the phone. simple as that dude. i've done it before.

if the guy makes her cry, then hes a pussyshit on the inside. he makes her feel like shit so he can feel good. he might even take out his anger on her. eg-a low life piece of shit who cant handle his own anger or problems so he makes people around him feel like shit. see the effect he had on you? you tried ignoring her. but you failed to lol. so obviously there must be a connection between you too.

btw if you already have her phone number, ask her "soo...i know you have a boyfriend and all, but i just have this ungodly attraction to you and i cant explain it, and i have these strong feelings for you. im wondering if you feel the same?"

lol.

 

Find some friends that are bigger than him. Make him afraid of you, instead of the opposite.

The next thing you need to do is win her over, which shouldn't be hard if hes abusive.

Best of luck!

 

So he is stronger/bigger than you? Try talking to telling him that you are not sexually interested in her and just wish to be a normal friend. Tell him that you are not attracted to her sexually but just wish to be buddies (Forgot the term for opposite sex relationship ware it is not sexual)

 

wth beat his ass man.. or find a wingman.

 

Like I said, start going to an MMA gym, and beat his ass on the ground! Break his arm!

 

Uh but I AM attracted to her.

 

Hmm than that's a different story. Try getting her to dump her boyfriend and call the cops if he is abusive. Some jail time might change his ways.

 

dont leave her alone. she will be drawn to you when she is done with him.

 

Your doing it wrong try harder.

 

sometimes its worth walking away tbh . but hey she may think ur clingy if u keep trying .

 

I don't understand this. It's better to walk away and let her be abused by that stupid fuck? No thanks.

 

alright listen, Dont listen to all this ooh find your love or believe in your heart bs this is life not a video game i promoise you that girl is not going to give you a mushroom to make you 3 x your size so you can stomp on her bf head

here is what you can do
Threaten him (like ill stab you whit a screw drive ,kid im not playing whit you)

This tends to lead to a fight but hey she would actually know that you would fight for her = but if you do lose just change schools or move out of the country

take steroids go to gym , wack off during the day time get really really big
then just beat the living shit out of him .

or

you can Colombian this shit

 

its none of your business At the end of the day if she dident want to be with him she would of left him?

 

These questions have probably been answered, but I need to know.

1) Does she know you love her?
2) Does she love you too?
3) Why does she stay with her boyfriend if they get into fights often?

I think your best bet would be to somehow convince her to let go of him. As for the boyfriend getting into a fight with you, since you're not the fighting type, just try to scare him. Openly talk to her more often, and show him those eyes (like how Edward did it in Twilight) every time you get the chance. It may not work, but I don't really see any other options for you.

 

don't give up, you should try talking to her about it in private, to see what she thinks about him.

 

Well, no offense, but you've shot down every suggestion that anybody has given you.

 

Exacly Just leave her too it if you keep saying it to her hes a violent thug ect she will just choose to ignore you its best to let her make her own mistakes and walk away and let her come running to you . Ie treat them mean Keep the keane .

 

Tell her what her boyfriend said to you, and if she said he is just being stupid, say well if your really going to stay with someone like that i can't sit here and be your friend and watch you take this like this, but say if you ever need me come talk to me, i'm always here, but i won't sit here and watch this.

 

Just be patient man, she could dump him, then he might blame it on you man, so its a though thing to go through if he beats you up i'd feel bad for you, maybe get few friends form a gang and beat the hell out of him self?

telling your parent would be a ridiculous thing to do, which i never do i take care of my problems my self, if you feel really in-secure abused, or bullied tell your teacher or your mum or the principal they will lissin' and take care of all of this.

 

@Gurt:
1. Yeah she's aware of it.
2. I have no idea.
3. I've been asking myself the same question. When I ask her, she says it's because she loves him.

I think I'll take your suggestions of beating his ass. Although, I might get my own ass beaten.