Some general advice needed.

Three days ago my girlfriend went back home. For the past 3 months, I've been spending every ounce of my time with her -- and I loved every minute of it. She is now over 3,000 miles away from me and will remain so for the next 11 months. After that, I'll see her for a few weeks and there will be two options:
A) She will go to university where I live and we will be together
B) She'll go somewhere else for university and we'll barely ever see each other.

I now find myself hopelessly depressed. I sit in front of my computer all day watching facebook until she signs on, or I spend my day staring at my cellphone for a text. I know that we're young, but I honestly feel a void opened up in my heart that could only be fixed by her presence. On top of that, I've been killing myself with worry that she will start liking some other guy during this year. I really have no idea what to do. Any help is appreciated.

Oh, and, I'm 16 years old; she is 17.

 

The same situation is happening to me, but just a little less harsh
Does she feel the same way you do? And have you talked to her about other guys?

 

She's been saying how she misses me tons, but I highly doubt it's anywhere near what I'm feeling. I have voiced my fears multiple times to her and she promised me again and again that it won't happen, but I'm still not sure. Sometimes she even seems hesitant when I ask questions like that.

Also, good luck on your situation.

 

Maybe put forth the effort to show her that you love her and that you want her. (guessing thats how you feel.) and ask for the same from here. not directly but you know what i mean and see if she shows it back.

 

Dude, when she comes back, try to put it in her ass....Then she'll understand.


Okay seriously now though, Try to get her to go to your university, hang out with your friends alot to forget about missing her so bad, so your not on facebook as much. Dont think about it and it wont hurt, so chill with your friends, and get drunk/really fuckin high.

 

So far she has been :/.

See, one of the main problems is that I put all my eggs in one basket. I neglected all my friends because I spent practically 90% of my time with her. Now I don't really have any guys to hang out with. I'd have to build it back up again, but I'm only in the mood to mope.

 

Oh, well you could always talk to someone on facebook, and make some plans.
And if there your real friends, they would understand you wanted to hang out with your girlfriend.

 

Mmhmh, thanks for the advice, I may do this.

 

Np, I was faced with the same thing, last year.

 

If she has been acting like she loves you, then why worry? Why would a girl lie to you that is 3,000 miles away that she has feelings? to me i think anyone would believe that's a waste of time. So obviously she isn't going to hurt you. Dont look at the bad side of things...and when you do talk to her to make you happy!

 

^This, what happens frequently in relationships is that people spend too much time together, and what something happens, whether it be a break up or a move like this people don't really know what to do with there lives. I would suggest

• 
  Find something you enjoy doing and do it

• Try to find atleast one person to hang out with

• Try joining some clubs or activities that interest you

• When/If she comes back, make her a priority but do not spend too much time with her

• Keep a healthy social life up with people other then your girl firend
  
• You need your time and I'm guessing she'll need her time

 

Very good advice. Thanks man