I have problems

Fine, let's suppose I don't love her. That still doesn't fix future problems with my complusive cheating.

 

Yes it does. Since you don't love her you want to be with other girls. Just break it off and go date.

 

Then i envy you, and wonder why in earth would you cheat on her.

 

You're not fucking anyone, you're a virgin. What are you going on about? You're saying you're fucking other girls, but infact you're a virgin?

 

Lol they always find out trust me.

 

Nope. Not unless you/someone else tells them.

From these 5 pages I've read (yes I did read them all), I'd suggest not telling Alynn. Just make an effort to not cheat on her. If you see another girl you want to fuck, compare her to Alynn and think about how much better she is than that other tramp.

Good luck.

 

do something that won't attract girls?
cos as men when girls come to us we don't refuse and thats the fact

 

Your a sex addict, just like Tiger Woods. You need to go to sex rehab to get out. Your obviously a sex addict if you go on vacation and can't prevent yourself from having sex. And you also say lust is all you think about when with another girl. So yes, your a sex addict. :noworry:

 

I think this basically sums up the problem. I don't think many people are seeing this. I use to steal from the store as well, but it wasn't because of the thrill - I just wanted the product.

I looked it up online on people who steal, and there's two types of thieves - ones who actually want the product, and for the thrill. You get an adrenaline rush for doing these deeds, and in the end you realize you don't actually need/want the product. The same goes for almost any other acts/deeds. All I can say is just to just do your best to avoid it as best as you can for now. Referring back to my example, a thief would try to avoid going to the store. It may be difficult, but try to find some motivation that will help you on your quest.

The only other thing that I can say is to possibly seek professional help.

 

Tell her, when it completely fucks things up, you'll change.
Or tell her and continue what you're doing. You say you love her, so at least let her move on with someone who will be faithful.