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Well me and my girlfriend started talking in december and we started to become best friends and talk about everything to each other around april and we started going out in june. Well while we were best friends she told me she had feelings for one of her exxs and wanted to go out with him again. Now its been a month since weve been going out and today the guy's cousin who she wanted to go out with tells her that he likes her again. And im worried that her feelings for him will come up again and she will dump me for him.... Ive seen this happen several times and i dont wanna be a victim. So any advice guys on wat to do? She sais she doesnt like him anymore and she only wants to be with me. But yea idk... Any ideas on wat to do to make sure she is telling the truth and only wants me and wont leave me for the other guy?

 

Don't stress about it, the worst thing you can do is stress.

Have you tryed talking to her about it?

If she dumps you for him she wasn't the one! Chicks that do that will end up doing it through there hole life.

Just talk is my suggetion.

 

Listen to her, if she tells you something believe her. If she ends up cheating on you be the better person. Move-on.

 

I was stressing when she told me. We talked about it and she told me she wasnt going back to him so i guess all i can do is trust her.

Yea im believing her since i trust her 100%.

 

If you worry about her liking him you're gonna look for signs of her liking him. Just believe her and let shit go.

 

Well, she's with you at the moment, right? There's no point being in a relationship if you're just going to spend all your time worrying about when it's going to end.

Don't even stress it.

 

Exactly. But I would say if you have ill-feelings about it, make sure you confront them head on. Talk to her about your insecurities. If she's a good person, she'll do something to reassure you and make you more confident in your relationship. That is, if you guys are that close.

Also, don't follow her, hack her emails, or attempt to make conversation with the guy. This will make her think you truly don't trust her, and it'll be an end to your relationship. Lol, it's always fun to realize you're right about someone after you hack their MySpace, though.

 

Yea i let go. Fuck it

Ehh...

I can hack her myspace since i have her email and pass and she does to mine aswell. But im not that desperate so ill just believe her and let it go.

 

Just believe that she won't do anything to you and enjoy the relationship while it lasts. If she breaks up with you / cheats on you, just move on.
Good luck.

 

The one thing i dont understand. Why have a high school relationship if your not even going to last? Sure it might last for 1-3 years or maybe more but its a slim chance you marry your bf/gf. So i honestly see no point in a highschool relationship but ehhh you never know if you might be the slim chance that actually stays with your boyfriend or girlfriend for the rest of your life.

 

High School relationships so you can make your mistakes and fuck up. Then when you meet the right person you'll be ready.

 

Yea thats true... Never thought of it that way.

 

I hope I helped

 

Yea with my question but not my big problems -.^