Best friend likes me but i have a girlfriend already.

Well heres the thing. Me and my best friend met last year (freshman year 9th grade) and we became real close friends in 2 weeks. I asked her out twice and she said no. We still stayed best friends last year she went out with this senior while we were sophomores... (this was ike 5 months ago) and we were texting yesterday and then she comes out and tells me that she has very deep feelings for me. I thought she was jokin then she called me and tells me its true and at this point i already have a girlfriend and we have 3 weeks together. My best friend tells me she made a huge mistake not telling me yes the 2 times i asked her out and she felt stupid not telling me how she felt. I stil have feelings for her but i have them deep down inside and idk wat to do. I like my best friend aloooot and i like my gf alot and my gf sais she loves me but idk. grr idk wat to do i tried getting wit my best friend for a year and a half and gave up..... and now she tells me this idk. If i leave my girlfriend for her she would absolutely say yes... without a doubt but if i do ill feel like a sad bitch for leaving a girl for another. so idk any advice guys please... and yea sorry if its all messed up i made this in a hurry.

 

I kinda went through the same thing bro.
Just keep talkin' to your friend, but keep your girl.
I'll give you more advice later but I gotta go, GL.

 

Thats the thing man... I feel right with both of them.... In school everyone thought me and my best friend went out because we hung out together most of the time. My best friend is moving to a different school and my girlfriend is trying to transfer to my school. so yea.... wat should i do

 

gee this does sound like a very hard decision, if its your best freind then I think she should accept that you got another girlfriend.

But you gf is moving to your school that will be awesome choose your actual girlfriend as they other girl you probably lose touch as she moving

 

Yeah, long distance relationships dont work, if your gf moves to your school, stick with her. anyway your gf didn't do anything wrong, she doesn't deserve to be ditched.

 

My best friend is alright with my girlfriend even though they never met.... But idk i like my best friend alot... Alot of guys trying to get wit her but she rejects them all... and im surprised she would say yes to me but grrrr i like them both alot...

 

Your best friend hurt you before, how do you know she won't change her mind again. Your girlfriend has stuck with you.

 

Ummm if you have deep feelings for her and she has the same for you, go for it...

 

My best friend has never hurt me. I would beat the shit out of anyone that hurts her and she would prolly do the same thing for me. My girlfriend and me have only been together for 3 weeks so yea... idk i feel like ill be happier with my best friend but idk wat to do...

 

go with your best friend then buddy ? You said so yourself ^^^^

 

Your best friend just wants you because you're taken now. It's all psychology. Stick with the girlfriend because you'll just get dropped when you're with your best friend, leaving you with nothing.

 

but i know my best friend and she is not like that at all.... but damn idk...

 

You have to give your best friend a chance. If she really is your BEST friend, you two probably connect in a way you and no other girl would. You can't deny that you would probably be happier having your best friend as your girlfriend. Who cares about the other girl if you have only been together for 3 weeks (dick move but true.) Although be careful and be aware that if it doesn't work out between you and your best friend your friendship will probably be destroyed.

 

Idk its just bugging me big time...

 

im telling you dude go with your friend. you and your girl friend will eventually fight and break up. and if u wait to long u guys will eventually like i said fight and break up and then your friend wont like you anymore and u lost ur chance to get with her. same shit happen to me

 

She basically said fuck you two times already, don't let her get what she wants.

 

i know... ut i mean i like her alot.... and i like my gf alot.... but idk man its hard.... me and my best friend have been through alot together... i really doubt she will just want me because im taken now...

 

K dude. Here's my story.

I was almost in the same situation. I was coming off of a relationship, and I went out with my BEST girl-friend. We had a great time for a while, maybe a month. And then it sorta fell apart. We're friends now (was at her house earlier tonight XD ) but I didn't have your choice. My other relationship was going nowhere. It's up to you.

 

She could have rejected you twice because she valued your friendship too much. This shows that she cares for you. Now if she is deciding to go out with you, she must really like you.

 

sounds like you already know what to do... your just stalling
Dump your girlfriend and go out with her