My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me, but I didn't really care, is it wrong?

My girlfriend of 3 years told me yesterday that she cheated on me and she was saying how sorry she was. But then I was surprised to find out I didn't give a crap. I didn't expect it,but I was really emotionless. I actually had a quite fun day and went to Six Flags? Don't get me wrong I really do care about her and she does mean a lot to me since we been going out for 3 years.

I don't really understand....
Can someone explain why I didn't feel sad or mad.

I kind of forgot it and I don't give a damn.

Oh and of course I broke up with her, she begged me for forgiveness and I was like nah........

 

If you didn't give a shit, then it was definitely the right idea. If you forgave her, she'd just cheat on you again. Leave her behind, it'll do you good. Except expect in a couple of day you'll start to care.

btw all women are whores.

 

Well, if she's sorry, give her a chance. You sound like you aren't affected by emotion all that much.

You really need to learn to respect them.

 

That is fucking bad ass!

Once a cheater, always a cheater. You made a wise decision to dump her and move on.

EDIT: Maybe you didn't feel any emotion because you guys aren't as close as before? I don't know what you guys are like together, but it seems like you've lost interest in her if you didn't care if she cheated on you.
It's still bad ass how you handled it, though.

 

Haha, while i was reading I was waiting for the "I'm still with her, though". But breaking up with her? That's so awesome.

It's like "Hey, I don't give a shit that you're whoring around, but GTFO of my house."

Nice work.

 

Girl friends are overrated. Being single is much more fun

 

You're funny.

Anywho. The reason you probably had no emotion was because after a while of dating people can tend to get bored of each other. I don't see why anybody could bare cheating. I'd rather have somebody dump me to my face than cheat on me and ask for forgiveness. You did a good thing, my friend. Don't hesitate to break up with somebody if they pull a whorish move like that.

 

Shoulda hit 2 or 3 times first.

Anyways you don't need her. Any girl who cheats can go to hell in my book.

 

You obviously didn't care about her much if you didn't care about letting her go. Thats why you didn't care when she told you she cheated on you.

 

You did exactly how you should. If you didn't care, and she was cheating, it wasn't much of a relationship anyways.

Honestly I would text her a couple times to give her hope that you'll get back, have some sex, and then stop talking to her. It's the best way to get back at a cheating whore that you don't care abouit.

 

You probably never had a girlfriend.

Ontopic: Maybe you don't value cheating very high or something I don't know. I just hope that you feel as if this was the right decision to make because 3 years is very long to just say; nah.

~Naughty

 

Good Job.
Don't take her back.
What you found out now, may have happened before, theres no guarantee.
But YOU have to manipulate her, if you forgive her then she's manipulating you and she knows it.
Now I don't mean go cheat on her, but make her think that shes isn't your damn handler.
Women lose interest in boyfriends/guys who suck up and do everything for them, it's just not fun or exciting.
What you did, you put your foot down, and if you didn't give a damn, then there was no connection OR you were expecting it, but didn't know when it would come.

Trust me. What you got to do is find some girl who's fun to be with, but likes to relax. A girl that will keep running back to you for more.
See in a relationship, it's the guys job to keep her interested. Once interest is lost, she'll be like "yea whatever" and either dump you, cheat on you, or just flat out the relationship would become boring.
What you got to do with a girl, is always keep her in attention and always keep her coming back for more and more.

Heres my example.
Whenever I talk about something I NEVER finish the story, atleast not at that day/time, but move on to something else and stray details, why? Because you keep her interested, keep down she will be like "Ugh! Whats the ending OMG!" And she'll listen to you. It's like a trance women are put in.
Now this doesn't mean go tell her your boring life story cause she wouldn't want to hear it, but start off with something smooth, build off of it, and no don't go in for the kill, but STRAY from the kill. Stall for as long as you can untill one day she just pushes you against a wall and wants to know everything!
It works for 99% of the guys who do it correctly, others forget it on day one or two once they think they won a girl over, but no, it's a continuous battle untill you're married basically, and thats when you've won.

Off topic, just a little, but my point is that if she did cheat on you, don't forgive her or take her back, it's not worth it.

RussianVillain.

 

Wow your such a dick! Go to hell! Learn to respect women, asshole.

(PS - Report me, idc.)

 

If you didn't care, then why did you break up with her?

 

It's the natural response with a man who has balls you know. You know you're higher than that and better, so when she told you, that good cold shit came out, "doesn't matter bitch" " doesn't bother me" it's all good, i can get any other bitch, got love but you fucked up, so gtfo.

 

You did the right thing, don't take her back.

 

You did the right thing, as others are saying. But don't go around and try and get back, it'll just make things worse.

 

Where it said she begged me for forgiveness I thought it said she banged me for forgiveness I was like WOW +1... Gj on Dumping her ass though idk if its normal to not feel anything though.

 

Good job, now just make her your fuck buddy and you're set

 

In all honesty, if a girl cheats on you there's obviously something going wrong in a relationship. If she blames alcohol or substance, that's no excuse at all.

You're right in breaking up with her, but don't fall back to her, she's done it before what is to say she won't do it again?

I go by the motto, once a cheater always a cheater.