Is 4 years too large of an age difference?

I'm 19, went on a double date with my friend the other day. Ended up really liking my date and we got high and made out - it was really fun. She told me she's 17 and I believed her cause she could pass for my age. I asked her out yesterday and we're going to her grad together tonight. The truth came out, it ends up she's 15. That's a 4 year age difference! Would you consider this pedobear worthy cause I feel kinda sick - normally I date girls older than me but she's fucking 15 years old omg. Is this like completely wrong or is it ok?

 

It's pretty wrong. She may only see you as attractive because your so much older and can buy her alcohol, but I may be wrong. There's a chance you two can still have a connection.

 

You're an adult. She's not. Therefore, you sir, are guilty of paedophilia. >_<
I wouldn't bother, it's not worth the risk of getting into the amount of trouble you could get into.

 

Oh my young hero.. Take the advice offered on this one. She is a minor and you, are not. As for down the road, I myself am connected to someone much younger and there is nothing wrong with that. It all comes down to we are both adults and we both fit well together. Maintain friendship and if it is really real.. there will come a time that this relationship would be legal. Much luck.

 

You could hit it and quit or you could be smart and walk away from situation. No fun is better then butt fun in jail.


*Senses Troll*

 

walk away before its too late

 

Stay far, far away. In many places the legal age difference is 3 years.

 

I generally tend to stick to a 2 year limit until the girl is 16, then it doesn't really matter.

 

That might be a little bit too too old.

My cousin was 25 and she went out with a 40 year old.. It's much different when you're an adult and you're a kid.

 

Uhmm depends, but in all honesty 15 seems abit young to me.

I would wait till she's atleast 17+

It's kinda pedophila since it's 4 YEAR DIFFERENCE, 1-2 would be okay but 4? That's kinda a huge gap, enspecially when your 19, and you'll be 20 years old in no time. Your already an adult, heck it's like being a porn star and bringing your 15 year old gf in the fun.


It's pedophila, just run. T

Imo, don't flame.

 

dude, age is just a number. but you have to remember, she is only 15 so with that young of a age be prepaird for the maturity level that comes with that age group.

 

If you do things with her also and than decide you want to break up with her, she can blackmail you, and probably will given her presumed immature age category.

 

DONT DO IT! shes 15 ur 19 that puts u at risk of being a sex offender which never goes away

 

"If there is grass on the pitch, PLAY BALL"

Age is nothing broski , people don't complain when it's girls who are older in a relationship why should they about guys.

Kids are way more mature than they used to be now! pretty scary.

IT's nothing like being a paedophile the girl is 15 she knows more than she should at that age.

You know same shit once happened to me when I was 16 and people tried calling me a pervert because my girl was 13 at the time..I had no intentions to bed her neither.. it's just people always come to conclusions!

 

As someone posted above made a very good point. Not just the age difference, but when you take a younger girl expect her actions to explain herself.

 

There are still laws making it illegal for a 15 year old to have sex with a 19 year old.

 

Terrible troll, if you ask me.

I wouldn't mess around with a 15 year old girl, myself.
My auntie and uncle have an 18 year age gap.

Also, one of my ex-gf's is living with a teacher, thats like a 32 year age gap or something. If you want proof, i'll provide.

 

Age, sexuality, none of that matters if you really care for a person.

 

Ignore the standards espoused by the above posters. The standard must be your own, for whether or not it is too big a difference differs for every person. If you continue to see her, I think you'll work it out for yourself. Don't let the subjective yuck factors of others bother you, though.