To good to be true or is it a reality? wat should i do?

Well First of all im not the good looking type so yea.... This girl added me on myspace in november and she said she knew me from 5th grade (currently becoming a jr in hs) and yea we go to different schools (i know people that go to the same school as her and they are cool with her so yea they tell me if she sais anything bout me). So the thing is we started talking and texting. I liked her after a while and i was jk bout going to her house (like 15 mins away). She said nah im busy or make excuses even tho i was jk. So we kept talking and then one day she tells me... "You wanna come to my house? My parents arent going to be home since they are working" i was like ok... i cant go today maybe some other time. So on friday she told me you wanna go to the mall? then we can walk to my house its like 5 mins away walking. I said sure. she is a freak.... i asked her jokingly if she would get freaky on me she said "maybe " so yea... im going to her house today and her parents arent home till like 6 and she wanted me to go over so her parents can meet me and they can see wat kind of person i am and they will let her go to the movies with me some time. So i was wondering if i should ask her out at her house. Most of my friends that know her say that i should ask her out since we talk alot now. On her myspace she had 4 top guys and she took one off and put me on #2 because #1 is her lil bro. Yea i know im not giving much info to work on but i just want some advice on wat to do today. The plan is to go to the mall for a bit walk to her house and watch a movie chill and drink. Keep in mind i havent seen her since 5th grade. She is a very pretty girl and i consider her one of my best friends and vice versa.


How saturday went:

ok guys she said yes. I got there like 10 mins late and 2 of our friends were there waiting. We called her and she said her parents were being asses and didnt wanted to bring her but somehow they let her come . When she got her we didnt talk at all for some reason. I guess we were both nervous since both of our friends were bf and gf and both of us knew i was going to ask her out today. After 20 mins we still couldnt decide a movie so we watched Letters to juliet. (gay ass movie btw) So we got in and i sat next to her and during the first 30 mins we just joked around about wat we saw in the movie and we got asked by 2 girls to shush but we just laughed and continued. After a while i was holding her hand and just left it there. Almost halfway through she put her head on my shoulder and i put my head ontop of hers ( i was sooooo nervous no joke) And we just kept staring at each other and i got my guts together and asked her to be my girlfriend. She smiled said yes and we were making out. Our other 2 friends kept bothering us and yea we just ignored it and kept on going. When the movie ended we were still kissing and our friends had to yell at us for us to realize movie was over. While we waited for our ride home me and her kept holding hands and making out. This mall cop told us to stop becuase this was a "family center" even tho it was like 10:30pm and hardly anyone was there. And we found out her mom was at the theaters watching karate kid (we were gonig to watch that but it was sold out and the next movie started ahour later so we watched letters to juliet instead) and she asked our friend to give her a ride since they lived near each other. When the ride got here i said by to my 2 friends and lastly her. We hugged and kissed for like 10 seconds and she left. Omg i was so happy when she said yes. Im so happy Thx for your help guys

 

Bang her.

 

im looking for serious advice.... not stupid advice... but its a possibility

 

Right, I'll be honest with you. You shouldn't get to close unless you're actually dating. Because if you're "good friends", she don't want to lose you... as a friend.

I've seen quite a few friends getting too close to a certain girl before making their move, and it being too late.

 

Well i havent seen her since 5th grade and she wanted to meet up with me. and yea idk when to ask her out yet i wanna do it today or should i wait till next time we go out somewhere

 

Well, I guess it's still "early". However, if you do consider eachother as "best friends" you should be quite careful regarding what you do.

There's several "out comes", let's say you do it too early. You might get lucky, however the chances are that it was too soon and one will end up getting hurt.

Too late, you'll figure out it was better as friends, however after the break-up it will be hard to go back where it once was.

(However, you should get to know her a bit better before you do anything, in my opinion).

 

yea... only reason im really going is because we havent seen each other since 5th grade and we text alot and we make each other laugh. and she wants me to meet her parents so that they will let her go out with me to the movies or wherever i wanna take her.

 

I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say regarding this post. First you're asking for advice, right? (Thread Title). Then once you're getting advice, you seem to be "defending" her actions, or... your own? I'm not quite sure what's that good for. If that's how it works, then maybe you don't need this thread?

(How old are you? That might help, because I don't actually get your school system so that doesn't tell me anything).

(I don't actually think the whole parents thing is a "sign", but maybe that's different from person to person?).

 

How am i defending her actions? I want advice on if i should ask her out today while were at the mall or just wait. and the parents its just something extra so that they will let her ho out with me to the movies or out to eat or something.

 

dont do nothing

 

The way I've read it, you saw/talked to her last time in 5th grade. Now you're finally going to see her again, after you've been texting back and forth, right?

When you say "ask her out", do you mean on a date? Because that shouldn't be a problem, but if you mean as to take it one step futher and taking it to the next level (at least away from just friendship), wouldn't that still be rather early?

 

yea ur right.... hmm ill see how things go and go from there... thx Anti-Virus

 

This guy sums it up.

 

^ yeppep

 

You can 'test the waters' first. Thats what i'd do. Just try holding her hand etc, see if she goes for it. If she does - ask her out. If she doesn't - she just wants to be friends. Lots of girls do just want a nice guy friend, so i wouldn't just ask her out straight up because that'd be too soon.

 

Stay close friends, no relationship, and get cooch.

 

Well the day is done... I went to her house her mom was very sick so i didnt talk to her. We walked around in the mall for a bit... We played video games for a while walked around and then went to her house. I went to her room and we just stayed there and chilled. We had a very great time. I didnt pull any moves today. Right before i left she said she wants me to come over again and smiled... so yea im going to herhouse again except idk when

 

It sounds like she is serious about you, I don't think anyone would go this far for a joke. I wouldn't try and take things to fast though, don't rush into anything to serious. Spend time with her and then you can take it from there. Good luck.

 

I was infracted for it, and I'm sure the guy below me was too. No need to get your period over it.

 

You're in, bro.

Pull out some moves next time. Some girls actually get annoyed if you don't make any moves, since they think you don't want them. But other girls will get annoyed if you do make moves, since they think you are coming on too fast. Though, i think this chick wants you.