My problems, hoping someone can help me out.

In the past year, I gained a bunch of weight, pushed away all my friends, lost interest in everything, and every little thing someone does irritates me. I have no idea why I am like this, I have a good, privileged life that a lot of people would love to have. Over the past year though, I've just come to be this depressed, irritable, lonely person that can't keep friends or motivate himself to do anything. Before this past year, I was one of the nicest people you would have ever met and I cared about everyone and myself. I honestly don't know where I'm going with this, but I'm hoping someone here on Sythe can give me some tips or something to calm me down and get me to gain hope back and stop being such a crazy person. I just don't know what to do anymore, I've lost trust and everyone and I'm the meanest person now, just hoping someone out there could help me out or relate to me, I'd really appreciate any help.

Thanks a bunch,
Evan

 

Why did you push away everyone away?

 

Posting this itself shows that you are a caring person. Someone trying to solve there problems, and recognizes it deserves some recognition. You just need to open yourself up. You seem to like sythe, which in turn is an interest. You seem like a nice person without showing it. Weight can easily be addressed. Try talking with old friends, getting connected with new ones. Try finding more things that keeps your mind focused on something happy. You have a purpose, you just haven't found it yet. Try doing things for people that you used to do. Helping others always brings a good feeling.

 

They just irritated me, things everyone else didn't find irritating, i find irritating, I would snap and yell at them or hit something and storm out of the room and after a while most of my friends stopped talking to me and now I"m where I"m at now.

 

Thanks alot, but i forgot to add that I'm a social retard. I don't ever know what to say to anyone, I can't keep a conversation going if it's between me and someone else.

 

It's a matter of interest. Try throwing out something that you like to do, and see what they think about it. There a millions of people out there who share the same interests as you.

 

It sounds like you might be masturbating too much.

That "finding everyone irritating" symptom is a common indicator of this problem.

 

maybe its puberty your maturing and dont think everything is right maybe smoke a little bit of weed now n then to calm you down and just talk to your friends ak them wats changed and try change it gl

 

Yeah I don't have a masturbation problem.

 

To be honest, I was exactly like you. I was surprised when I read this thread because when I was like this, I believed there was no else out there that was feeling what I was feeling. Additionally, I live a privileged life and used to be socially awkward.

Simply put, you need someone to talk to. I couldn't talk to my parents as they were the root of the problem. My friend helped me lighten up my day and make connections with new people that I talk to often now. Talking to your school counselor helps a lot, too, since you can vent without worry.

I hope I helped and wish you luck on your new path.

 

Try being less of a dick and grow up.

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get the fuck off the computer and chill it with some kids at school hang at your local skatepark..go to the mall. go to the park..get out of the damn house.

 

Well, are you doing any kinds of drugs? Medication? Etc..

 

The first step towards recovery is admitting that you have a problem.

 

My parents don't let me do anything, I'm sixteen and have a license, but my parents don't let me do anything at all. I'm really not allowed to do anything ever, it sucks. I also don't have a job with money so even if i could do something, I wouldn't have the money.

No, last drug i did was weed, and i haven't done that in a few months.

Yeah I did admit i had a problem, it was my first post, unless you have anything to say that could help me, don't post here.

 

In the late 1800s, graham crackers were claimed to have properties that made you not masturbate that day. Infact, this is how they became a household product.


Google this - and try em!

 

Could be puberty or a small amount of schizophrenia(if thats possible), i have friends where everything little thing irritates them as well but they seem to go with life good enough, so im just saying that there's people like you who go on with life normally as well

 

I've found that finding a friend who also doesn't have a huge number of friends provides for more opportunities to "do shit".

Go out and see a movie. You do have enough money to buy a movie ticket, right?

 

I do have friends just not a lot, i have one best friend down the street from me and we hang out all the time, but its only because he puts up with my shit, and yes i have enough money to buy a movie ticket.

 

this could be my problem.

I can't really give you advice but yet I can, (kinda) a great way to keep a conversation going is make a fool out of yourself/be honest. Like how you said you are socially retarded, when having a conversation kinda laugh and say, oh yea and if you notice a quite moment or something just talk about anything cause i suck at keeping conversations going so I'll let that be your job! Be funny relax, enjoy yourself no matter what your doing. I could be somewhat considered a loner too, but hey if someone talks to me I have no problem talking with them, I'm just a very laid back kinda guy, I got no problem talking with people, and most of the people I do talk to varies in the stereotype category, the jocks all love me because even though I can't play sports ( I got a weak right leg from a stroke I had as a baby) I know a ton about sports. I'm not really awkward I don't do awkward things, I don't somewhere like an oddball and if anyone asks me what I'm doing I just say I'm just chilling man relaxing, and they usually 9/10 times like that, and are like ALRIGHT and they relax and chill too...