Need advice on how to ask a girl out :s

Yea heres a long story short, i started talking to this girl freshmen year (keep in mind were in high school) and i found out she rode my bus and lives 3 streets away from me. We kept talking and eventually we became best friends. We had our ups and downs and since 2 weeks ago she getting closer to me than usual as in we hang out more after school she lets me walk her home everytime we ride the bus home. She blows off her friends in the morning to go walk around with me around school and her friends despise me for it. [ Top make it funnier one of them is a gay guy] So yea we play around after school everyday and she tells me she loves me everyday but idk if its friend love or love love. After 3rd period we see each other and we walk to class together. Today my friend decided to join us and he brought up a old subject when me and her weren't that close and i had a crush on her (which i still do) and she just got red and told him to shut up and left mad. I told my friend to shut the fuck up. He got mad aswell and left. So it was awkward and idk wat to do. I need some help lol.

Its not the fact that she can say no, its the fact that i just worry that things will be awkward after i ask her. :s

Dont Tell me, your a bitch, pussy or flame me. I just need some advice.

 

Your probably going to think this is no help but I don't know what else to say, just ask her out. Approach her when you feel comfortable and ask her if she would like to go to the movies or hangout. More than likely she will say yes and then you can begin creating more of a one on one boyfriend girlfriend relationship.

 

Apologize to your friend, and talk with the girl. Ask her where you guys are "at" have you ever been on a date? Tbh, it seems like you guys are a couple acknowledging the hand holding + the fact you are hanging out a lot

 

When she doesn't notice you're there, sneak up behind her, whip it out, and rub it against her.

Then yell SURPRISE!

 

Just tell her how you feel, don't necessarily ask her out. Based on her reaction and what she says then go from there.

 

well ill try tommorow on the bus :s

 

Well, what I do is say, "Ayo bitch! Gimmie you numba!"

Jk. Just be funny. Not like "Ahahahuckhuckhuck wanna go out with me? ahahayuckyuckhuck" but be like, giggily no homo.

 

Well the thing is, ive had her number for a long time. Since december she texts me i love you every night but since i broke my phone it hasnt been the same. She would send me pics of her (not nude). But yea. Another thing. Im not some hot looking guy, im kinda chubby and shes fucking HOT. I mean half of the school is trying to get with her. So yea its kind of the reason im deciding whether or not to ask her. I mean is it to good to be true or wat.... so yea... :S

 

if you two are really close you should feel the confidence and not shy to just talk to her about your feelings. don't simply just say oh will you go out with me? just talk to her and tell her how exactly you feel towards her and let her know what your feelings are. that is the best way to go about it, and if she feels the same way then you both know you have feelings towards each other in the way of a relationship not friendship and vice versa.

 

I actually read the whole thing.

It sounds you guys are already going out buddy, all you gotta do is finalize it, you and this girl are closer to eachother than some of my ex-girlfriends have been with me.

To finalize it, you will need to ask her out, but judging by what you've said (if true) it's a guarenteed yes:
I'd honestly avoid asking her out in school, I don't know the reason why, I just feel more uncomfortable in the school setting and you have some good windows outside of school to talk to her. When you are walking home or riding the bus home with her, ask her to hang out with you this weekend. Go for the cliche movie date, it's a great date setting and you can avoid awkward first date situations when in the dark.

Anyway, there's my advice, take it or leave it and good luck

 

If you really are best friends with her, you should ask her out. It's basically my situation and I've been going out with her for 7 months now. If she had said now, I would still be friends with her; you've got little to lose really.

Btw friends can be important in starting a relationship by slipping hints. They started mine because I was too scared to ask her.

 

Just ask her out. The worst she can say is no. Ask her out or you'll be kicking yourself in the future, wondering what would've happened if you did ask her out.

There isn't any harm in asking. Let us know what happened okay?

 

If it seems to good to be true it probably is

 

Your still in highschool, highschool relationships don't last long because of reasons. Eg, Peer Pressure.

But that's just me, but if you think you can last a good and long relationship then you should ask her out.

 

hmm you've never spoken to a girl have you, just heard of people doing it?

 

Take her out to a movie dude, thats what I did with my last girlfriend. On the way home I asked her out and she said yes.

Or:

Think of something you both enjoy doing, and go out for the day sometime at a weekend. Don't fear rejection, because if you are holding hands I highly doubt she is going to say no to you.

Best of luck <3

 

its not the fact that shes can say no, its the fact that things maybe awkward after she sais no that worries me. IDC if she sais no as long as were still friends... but idk....

 

Those signs are screaming out to me.

Do not fear. If you don't ask her, you will never know and will probably regret it. Take her somewhere, just you and her, and it will come out.

 

Thx skillers FTW, seems lie your talking out of personal exp

 

definetly go for it. im 99% sure that she'll say yes.