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  1. Too Explicit

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    Well I'm 15 years old and the girl i've been dating for over a year, who is also 6 months pregnant, ended things with me completely a few days ago...

    It hurts so bad to see her talking to other guys at school, and having to be in the same classes as her. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm so depressed, and I just feel like crying all day :(

    What will help me get over her and keep my mind off of her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
     
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    Is it your baby?...
     
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    yea, is it yours D:If so, cymbalta can help.
     
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    Push her down some stairs :p.

    Or show that no other guy in your school is mature enough to take care of both her and the child, meanwhile maintaining his own life and future.

    Chicks dig alpha males.
     
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    Push her down some stairs :p.

    Or show that no other guy in your school is mature enough to take care of both her and the child, meanwhile maintaining his own life and future.

    Chicks dig alpha males.
     
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    Try crystal meth for an easy fix, but realistically, move on. The sooner you are "in love" with another girl, the sooner you will forget.
     
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    These guys are all extremely immature.

    If it's your baby and you're sure it is (and she hasn't been sleeping around) then tell her that you want to be around it as a father figure when it is born and that you'll be there for her.

    Give her the run down of what you can provide and what none of the other immature kids your age can't.

    Being quiet and not speaking out is probably one of the worst things you can do, and the longer you wait the worse. Call her, message her, do something and tell her you'd like a few minutes of her time. Tell her that she can go do whatever she wants after and that this is all you want.

    If she denies you then that's that... Life doesn't always work in your favor.

    Good luck man!
     
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    When getting over a relationship I usually think about all the negative things about the relationship that are now gone and how much your life may be able to improve without her, wont work in all cases though.
     
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    If it is your baby, say that you want to see it weekly, that is if you want too, if your just trying to get over her, then date someone the faster you get in love the faster you will get over her.
     
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    There's the obvious question: is it your kid? If it is, this is a much stickier situation than I want to acknowledge; so, I'm not going to acknowledge it...

    Hmm. If it's your kid, and she's talking to other guys, great? I don't know - that sounds horrible to say, and feels wrong; but, it's not your fault if she's a hoe, and wants to skank around. I'm surprised that other guys are flirting back with a pregnant chick...
     
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    I think the most important question is if it's your baby or not, then we can really give you advice.
     
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    Yeah, Try and tell yourself negative stuff about her. And try talking to other people and hanging with them... Sooner or later she will be a nobody to you.
     
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    I don't know many guys who are interested in pregnant girls, she might take you back after she has the baby, you know how pregnant women are.
     
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    Stop playing Online games and focus on you're real life problems, then come back once sorted.

    Not being mean, I had to stop for a long time to sort out real life problems, trust me it helps. You also feel so happy once you come back and realise, Wow, that game's not my life.

    Good luck on what happens, Pce,

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    I don't play runescape much at all..i barely log on. And yes it is my kid everyone. I've been texting her and messaging her on facebook but she still won't reply.. =/

    I just know she will have another guy soon because once earlier in our relationship (after we found out she was pregnant) she cheated on me and hooked up with me best friend nick...i quit talking to him after that and it took me weeks to get over it and finally work things out with her
     
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    You can't get over her if it's your baby...
    Man up and take responsibilities for your actions.
     
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    Well duhh..I'll be in the babies life no matter what, I've already got a job to help pay for everything
     
  18. Gohan

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    Your minimum wage job won't do much in the future, especially since your 15. And about her... If she is too much of a dumb bitch to not realize she is pregnant with YOUR child, then you need to make her realize that soon. There's really nothing else left you can do, and don't consider abortion either, because if you do then personally I think you'd be an idiot.
     
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    She will probaly come back to you, and do you know why she did it?
     
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    I'd assume you live with your parents since you 15...and do they know about this?
     
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