This strange problem

everytime i go to a disco or someplace else, i cant pee in an uniral because there are people around me, even if i really have to pee. anyone else has the same problem?

 

It's normal. Just wait it off or tell the person next to you to fuck off.

 

Wait until they've left the toilet then do it quickly

 

Just pee, man. What are you afraid of? Don't worry too much about what other people think. Live your life. If you have to worry about what other people think all the time, life is just not worth it.

 

I use toilet cubicals, too many peedos. But I would use a urinal if there wasnt a cubical, I just use cubicals over urinals.

 

Just go. Everyone there is keeping to themselves.

 

Yh its i hear People have this Problem not me personally.

 

I do I always use a cubicle wherever I go.

 

I don't use them at all. I think they're disgusting and I couldn't even contemplate using one in public. I don't think it's a ''strange problem''. I know lots of people that won't use them.

 

I have the same problem, its actually a disorder called Paruresis. I have it pretty extreme, its terrible. I don't know why it happens to me, it started back when I was in middle school though. It sucks, I can pee in my house and some of my friends houses. But when I am in school, I have to wait until the bathroom is completely empty to pee, and if I am in a public bathroom somewhere else I can go if there is tons of people. Its weird.

But don't worry, your not alone, I have the same problem and I fucking hate it.

 

If they look at you, or attempt to look down on you.
Say this, "Don't be a fucking meat gazer."
They won't look anymore.

 

There is also an organization out there to help people out, I go on there and read some stuff and try to take it in and use. It has worked a couple times.

http://www.paruresis.org/

One of the things that works for me personally, is if someone is in the bathroom with me, I will take out my phone and start texting someone because it takes your mind off peeing and puts your mind on something else, so after a little bit you will just go.

 

Why worry, No is wanting to look at you or invade your space. Just because you feel it doesn't mean the guy next to you doesn't feel the same exact way?

 

'Shy Bladder'
I sometimes get it

 

Watch the movie "Waiting.." one of the characters in that movie has the same problem.

 

It's really no big deal, no one is watching or judging you.

 

Couldn't you just use a stall?
Anyways, I'll just put this here.

 

Same, I always use the toilet.

 

its not i dont want to pee, i CANT pee. even if i have to go real real bad, i stand there and its just not coming out, no matter what i do