I need relationship advice...

tl;dr

someone summarize in 5 words or less pls

 

loves gf but she mighn't

 

ok dude.

tell her how you feel exactly. if she doesn't feel the same way move the fuck on, don't waste your life on a girl that you probably wont spend your life with. You might think your in love, trust me i know how you feel. But you've got to forget it.

 

move on i say mate

 

Not to be rude, this sounds like one of those soap operas that'll end in vain.

If you really like her that much, forget about her. You're putting in way too much effort for someone who probably isn't worth your "heart" (Can't believe I said that word).

So this isn't the first time? Well, this isn't the first time I'm not surprised about hearing it also.

This'll be harsh, but face it, she'll never like you. She even admitted that in her opinion, no body will like you. That right there is one of the stupidest things to say about a person. She ran out of excuses so she's trying to blame the fault on you.

And no, don't say fuck it to love. Get in another relationship with the assumption that i'll probably end a week afterwards. In other words, don't start a relationship with the intention of having it being long. Once you see the person infatuated with you, then start devoting more time to her, but not so much that it'll get you back in the state your currently on.


Long story short, tell her that she didn't mean any of the excuses she gave you. Only idiots fail to do the same thing twice, and I'm supposing she's not a mentally challenged person, therefore, she doesn't love you.


Sorry to sound harsh, but based on the opinions expressed her, the general feeling is that life is still a long way to go. You're probably going to find someone better than this.

GL.

 

Did none of you read what I said? I'm not asking her out! I'm currently dating her! The girl who said I wouldn't deserve anybody and should have committed suicide is my ex, Alyssa! That was a year ago! I'm talking about the girl I'm dating currently; whose name is Maxxy.

 

If she wants to be an excuse-making, lying, cheating lesbian, then let her be an excuse-making, lying, cheating lesbian. The quote in your sig backs up the fact that you're looking for a different type of girl.

 

No, I just found that quote to be amusing. It's not biased towards my tastes,

 

Okay, well if she's into chicks, why do you stay with her?

 

I would only expect an answer like that from you lol

But yea I agree :]

 

Like I said, with any girl, have the knowledge that it'll be broken up some day so it doesn't hurt you anymore. When you realize you're in a suit at a church with everyone dressed up formally, the you'll know that this person that haven't broken up with you is the right one.

 

I feel bad for you , just wait or move on.

 

I love her. I honestly do... I'm just afraid she doesn't love me...

 

Listen to your own words. You told us she's cheating on you, and with 2 other girls. This means that she is probably a lesbian in nature. She cheated on you, which means that she probably lost interest in you. You're being too generous to her which gives her the opportunity to take advantage of it, and still know that she can fall back on you anytime she wants to.

Therefore, if she's not responding the same way to you as you are with her, then she ain't in love with you.

 

You're obsessed with her. Why would she like you?

 

Not really, I give her space; and she gives me mine. I don't worship her. I'm just upset that she cheated on me.