I need relationship advice...

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That pretty much just sums it up. I seriously love this girl; but, I don't know if she loves me. I need you guys to help me. This is not a troll or anything, I need you all to give me some fucking advice! For my sake! I don't care that this is a runescape cheating website.


Thanks,


~dragonfire455

 

Tell her, there's no point hiding it.

 

If you are below the age of 18, then just end it now. So many other girls you will meet (why kill yourself over one?)

 

Exactly.

Tell her how you feel and if she says no then it's a no. Move on or try harder. There is no point in sitting there and killing yourself when you haven't even tried.

 

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This.

I feel in love with this one girl last school year until the beginning of this school year. You have to realize that you can't make someone love you and you have to give up. Her and I are pretty good friends now (even though she is bitch most of the time) since I have given up but I will always like her a little bit and thats fine.

There are more people in the world, you can't make someone love you, it has to come naturally.

 

Did you all not read what I had said? The girl who told me to kill myself was my ex! That was last year! I tried telling her and talking to her about this and all she does is blame herself and say 'I always fuck things up'

 

She did fuck things up, she cheated on you...

 

Then obviously she isn't worth your time. Ignore that bitch.

 

What I find funny is I'm going to be showing her this topic for an opinion of the average person on what'd they'd do if their girlfriend cheated on them. Sure, most guys say 'at least she didn't cheat on you with a guy' well, it's the concept itself of cheating. not the gender.

Keep going with the advice, guys. I need some sincerity.

 

Why keep on trying to make her feel bad about it? It's obvious she's a dumb whore but just get on with your life. It hurts them more if you act like nothing happened and get on with your own life, but if you are constantly reminding her about it, then it gets old.

 

No I didn't read all of it, I just kinda skimmed through it but now I did.

That is still pretty fucked up even if its with a girl instead of a guy. Tell her to make it up to you and have a foursome with all of them. Thats what I would make her do.

 

How to get a girl to like you:

Get to know her friends. Knowing her friends, she'll have a different kind of respect for you.

Ask her questions. Girls love feeling important.

Try to help her with any task she seems to struggle with.

Don't randomly go up to her saying you like her, forcing her to decide right then and there if she likes you are not.

Let her get to know you better then you know herself. You wouldn't want to keep anything, that would come up in the future.

 

Liking is different from loving.

 

Make her think it's all okay and whatnot, then cheat on her. Then she'll know how it feels and won't have a reason to do it again.

 

I would just forget about her, she isn't worth it. You might be in love with her, but the longer you hold on to her, the harder it will be to move on. There are many more girls out there.

 

well dude if she cheated on you on told you all that stuff it doesnt realy sound like she loves you. but just tell her you love her and if she says no then just move on.theres more fish in the sea

 

Wow, where from the same City & State... Creepy

Anyways, From a girls perspective I would have to say being honest with us is
the best way that your going to communicate love.

Trust, communication, and just not being a douche are genuine helpers to.
And then when you feel comfortable approach her and just be straight forward about it.

Don't just be like " OMG I LOVE YOU! "
Maybe just ease into it, so you don't give her a heart attack haha.

Hope I've helped.

 

wouldnt u be happy she cheated on u with 2 girls not a boy lol 3 for 1..

 

tell her... if she says no.. then well, ouch =\

 

I guess I take for granted that I'll be marrying my grade-school sweetheart. (Since Grade 6)