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  1. Unread #1 - Sep 26, 2009 at 8:07 PM
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    I've just recently broke up with my girlfriends of 3 months, we were friends after we broke up for awhile.. but for some reason, she's just really mad at me. We go to the same school, and its unavoidable seeing each other. I talked to her over MySpace, but that just made it worse. Should I just stop and move on, or what?
     
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    Obviously the reason she's mad at you is...well ...their is none. Move on :d
     
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    I'm trying to move on, it's just weird... and now its kinda awkward when we see each other, seeing as we hang out with the same people.
     
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    If you are sure you haven't done anything just man up and ask her what the deal is.

    If she gives you some crap excuse or bogus answer just walk away.
     
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    Actually, I just asked her why, she says because I didn't walk her home, but this is after we stopped dating. I don't feel the need to walk her the whole 10 seconds to her house, and I didn't walk her because I had to go somewhere.
     
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    Did you tell her that? If not, you should. You have no commitment to walk her home if your not dating and have your own stuff to do. If you walk with her sometimes cool, but you shouldn't have to go out of your way.
     
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    I went through this same situation, two months after, we were still angry. And we got the same classes together. And in 2 of them we had to sit next to each other. She eventually became my best friend. Just let it play out and something will eventually happen.
     
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    I'll try this. I mean, she doesn't hate me, but she's just mad.
     
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    They just want your attention, let her be.
     
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    She still has feelings for you. Did you break up with her, or vice versa?
     
  21. Unread #11 - Sep 27, 2009 at 12:27 AM
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    Why does it matter? Just ignore her and get on with your life. Too much fucking drama on this forum.
     
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    I broke up with her.. I still like her though.
     
  25. Unread #13 - Sep 30, 2009 at 7:47 PM
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    what circumstances made it so that u had to break up with her? And it is natural for her to be mad at you, maybe it was the way u broke up with her, like most of the time ppl dont realise that they need to make the break up slow so that both sides understand why it happened, and you were hurting the person when u broke up with her. give it sometime and just try to be her friend rather than make things akward
     
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    It's so good to know you can predict peoples feelings, congratulations you've solved the conundrum.

    On-topic: It's never impossible to ignore her. You obviously care more then she does about the situation, meaning you still have feelings for her, although you're the one who broke up with her.

    Solution: Move on to bigger and better things.
     
  29. Unread #15 - Oct 5, 2009 at 10:44 PM
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    My ex and I are still good friends, she comes over sometimes and we play xbawks.
     
  31. Unread #16 - Oct 6, 2009 at 6:04 AM
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    This happened to me. She just started ignoring me for no reason, so I'm like.. ok I'll just ignore you then ^^..
    A year on and it's still awkard walking past her at school. I don't have the balls to confront her. Just have nothing to do with them and get a hawter gf :D
     
  33. Unread #17 - Oct 6, 2009 at 7:44 AM
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    Sucks right? I had a gf.. (Well still my gf) but we broke up for a month or so, but we had the same friends so i never hung out with them when they hung out with her. It's like my friends chose HER side. I don't understand why nobody understands that they wouldn't even know her if it wasn't for me.
     
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