Question.

Hey guys... For a while now I've liked this girl, but she's emo(or atleast is with that style) and I want to ask her out. She doesn't have any wrist scars, so she may be punk . She's known me since like 2nd grade and I wondered if I should do it. I don't want our friendship to be ruined or anything, so any tips on that? OH forgot to add my most recent girlfriend laid me off for her other guy which she was with before me.. Hmm, talk about whore, huh?

ALSO I have about 200 bucks to spend, should I go to hot topic and just buy some stuff, but not declare myself as emo? I'm more of a punk who doesn't cut myself. I would like some tips on what gear to get. I have thought maybe get some of my favorite band tees, and maybe some tight skater jeans >_< . OH! Almost forgot some converse high tops. But anything you guys would suggest?

If this thread turns to spam, first thing I'll do is report it to an off topic mod . So, keep that in mind and tell me what you think.

 

If I were you Kiabin, I wouldn't change my style just to get her to like you more. I know it sounds cliche, but it's the honest truth. You're going to want a girl who wants to be with you because of what you behold. It sounds like you should have an easy chance at it, but don't try to push it on her. Go with the gradual approach and slowly start talking and hanging out with her more. If I were you I'd go for it - you've got nothing to lose. Good luck finding :love:

 

If you really knew her since second grade you would know what she likes... Buy her like a $25 itunes giftcard, or a Hot topic giftcard.

 

Well she went with the emo style 2 years ago and I don't hang out with her as much anymore. We hang about every 1-2 weeks.

I'll consider doing it .

 

I wouldn't really give her a gift, it could be awkward for her. That's too direct of an approach. I would say start with talking to her more increasingly.

 

She works at the amc, and I might just apply to a job for her and I to start hanging around more .

 

Don't do that.. That's a little creepy unless you're really good friends and she has asked you to get a job there with her. Don't buy her a gift card either, that is also slightly creepy and girls that aren't total whores don't like to be bought off.

Changing your style may be a good idea, because it would show her that you're willing to change for her and that you're accepting of her style.

 

or another option is to spend that 200 dollars on her for something nice.

 

Since when did us men become less confident and intimidated by women? Best to be yourself and be confident, speak as you'd like to speak, be as you'd like to be, if she doesn't like it, then move on. There is always someone else out there who will appreciate you for who you are.

 

This is some good advice. It'll seem like you're coming on too hard if you get a job at the same place.

 

I agree don't force yourself into a job with her, but I don't really see how a gift card is creepy...it depends what it is, I guess...but in general a gift card is one of the least personal presents you can get, so I'd abstain from it anyway

 

Good point. I already have a nice paying job, no point in leaving .