I'm Not Gay, But...

I saw that guy again. Some people will remember from the previous thread that a guy came into my work and i wanted to get his number.

Anyway!!! He came into my work again but i was like totally nervous. When i saw him, my heart started beating real fast hahah. I was like "omg its that guy", also i found out hes a scene guy because this time he came in all dressed up so i could tell .

But i ofcourse was all okay once he started talking to me, he asked if i worked there full time etc and so i can tell he totally wants to be my friend as well. Also he came with other friends and they were all in the car telling him to hurry up but he just spent like 20 minutes talking to me hahah . I didn't get his number though because i chickened out again . I'll definately get it next time though, i regret it so much since i have no idea when he'll come in again. Hopefully he comes in again soon!!

Also i was thinking, i generally enjoy the company of guys more than girls. I have a lot of friends that are girls, well eventually they annoy the shit out of me and so i stop talking to them. But i'm not gay or bi-sexual or anything. I just prefer company of guys more. Like most people say "i always go shopping with chicks since they know what looks good" but i know a lot about fashion and i pick guy friends that do as well. So i actually prefer to go shopping with guys.

Is anyone else like this?

 

Im not like that , Just ask for his number if your so convinced he came to talk to you for 20 mins. Gl with that.

 

Well guys are generally more intelligent then girls. So with that you may prefer the company of a guy over a girl.

 

The reason why i think that is because:

Hes 19 (you have to be 18 to buy alcohol in Australia) and i've been working at my current job (Alcohol Store) for about 6 months. I've never ever seen him before. First night i see him, he doesn't talk to me much but i could tell he was hesitant in starting a conversation. Then he comes in again later that night and starts talking to me this time, we had like a good conversation but it was getting busy so i couldn't really talk to him anymore so he left.

Then he comes in again tonight and talks to me yet again. So, he hasn't been in my store in 6 months, then all of a sudden he comes in 3 times in 1 week? And he asked if i worked full time or not.

So yeah, thats why i think he came in because he enjoys talking to me.

 

I'm not completely like that, I like to hang out with guys more because there's more to talk about with guy friends than to talk about with girl friends. Anyways, if he's that much of your friend to talk to you for 20 minutes and keep his other friends waiting, you should get his number.

 

Well my friends that I hang out with are guys.. And everyonce and a while i'll hang out with a girl with my friends. But ima have to say your BI no joke, when i want to make friends with a dude my heart rate doesnt go up and start sweating, that happens when im about to ask out a hot chick or i am about to jump into the pool at a swimming meet

 

Don't be shy, get to know him, be like
Hey dude, what's your number?

 

Don't worry about it. Same thing happens to me, but if i see someone who i'd like to be friends with, i ask them for their number to contact them, it doesn't make you gay, you know you're not gay, so don't be afraid to ask for his number. It's only friendship, and by now, you are classed as friends anyway. Just say to him "Hey what's your number, maybe we could meet up when i'm not working and chat" etc.

 

I doubt that you are gay, but why do you start every thread out like "I'm not gay"? Are you afraid of getting ridiculed?

I think that if you would like to be friends with him, ask him to hang our or some shit. Thats how i met all my friends. Actually, when i started my new job a year ago, i met some people that i thought were pretty cool, and asked to hang out..play some basketball, etc.

 

I start threads out like that since they generally draw attention lol.

Also lots of spammers read the first sentence then post something completely irrelevant. In this case they'd probably be like "find out if hes gay too" or some complete bullshit. By saying "i'm not gay", forces them to read a tiny bit further than the first sentence.

 

I'm only a Ladys Man

 

Early stage of being a Bisexual.

 

I Think you just need some Bromance

 

i get where ur coming from girls are annoying and guys are just fun to hang around with cuz they think like u, ex..u see a girl u think damns she fine he thinks the same thing u with a chick and u say that shell be like WHAT?>?. =p

 

Dude, Your Bi-Curious.

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Anyway!!! He came into my work again but i was like totally nervous. When i saw him, my heart started beating real fast hahah. I was like "omg its that guy", also i found out hes a scene guy because this time he came in all dressed up so i could tell .

Most guys when they see a handsome guy they'd think "Damn, He Must get Bitches". Not "Damn he is sexy". They is just homosexual.

And Most dudes chill with other guys. It Called friends/Homies.
I'd rather chill with dudes then with girls.
But there is a border, and asking for a dudes number is crossing it.

 

This is completely normal, and nothing to be ashamed or concerned about.

I myself am not homosexual, nor do I have anything at all against homosexuality, but I also enjoy the company of men more than women. I also agree with Finn. You are more 'infatuated' rather than 'attracted' sexually, or otherwise.

 

I feel this way about a guy in my class room. I'm not gay but I think he's hot.

You may be bi-curious lol

 

Try to find some hobby that you two have in common.
Then see if you could do it together. Say he likes to bike,
you like to bike, maybe you should bike together?
Just try to take it out of the work stage. Since right now,
you are not actually 'friends' per say.

 

After reading the other thread and this one, I deffinately think your bi-curious and maybe even bisexual.

 

Rofl I'm pretty sure this kid is under 18, otherwise why would he ask if you work full time? He's trying to become your friend so that you don't card him when he buys alcohol. It makes so much sense when you think about it.