How to Get a Girl's Attention in 15 steps.

Guys often try way too hard or don't give any effort at all. This how-to. will let you know what a girl is really into.
15 Steps !


1.
Be yourself and if she dosen't likeyou for that then she isnt right for you. The last thing you need is a girl who's not interested in the real you. No matter how gorgeous or fantastic she is - it isn't worth it!

2.
#Always smell fresh and clean. Brush your teeth, style your hair, and dress well enough that it is obvious to her that you know how take care of yourself (FYI - even this starting point is going to rank you way past most of the guys out there).

3.
Wear cologne. Not too much, but enough so that the girl will recognize it when in proximately of you. When picking out cologne, try to stick to the same type and try avoid common scents. Get a few tester bottles (these are free) and wear each one on separate days. You are doing this so you can figure out which you like the most and which works best for your chemistry. You may do different variations of scent as well. Using natural extract oils, such as lavender, vanilla, and the like will give you a unique smell (most natural foods stores will have these items) at a lower cost.

4.
Listen when you engage in conversation. Girls can tell if you are distracted or if you don't really care about the subject. They know these things, regardless if you think they can't tell. By listening, you show that you genuinely care about her and her interests (plus, everyone loves talking about themselves, even more, they love people who want to hear them talk). Also, when engaging in conversation don't second guess yourself when you speak. There will be a point when you need to discuss your interests and preferred activities. Do not ask for their approval, but keep the dialogue about your respective self short and never incriminating nor negative. This will generate both "mystery" and a sense of decency of your persona matched with beautiful confidence and conciseness.

5.
Pay attention to the details. When you're dressing, do you look like every other boy? Flipped up collar, same shoes, same look, same talk. Time to change, baby. Find something custom to you, whether it is how you wear your belts, your shirts, hat(s), any form of jewelry, whatever! This shouldn't be overdone unless you really know what you're doing! It should be a reflection of yourself and your difference among "all the other boys." Don't be scared to stand out. Women will associate your attention to the details with how serious you are about them.

6.
Be sure to notice the little touches to dress and style that she may have added. Pass a compliment that is one of a kind and you may have just struck the strings of her heart, example: "wow, I love the pink with green eye shadow you use, it's so vivid." She took some time doing that, so you'd better take note.

7.
Pay attention to your hair and eyes. These are two of the most important features of all when a girl is checking out a guy out. Hair should be clean, properly conditioned, but it's also very hot when a guy's hair has a messy style.[Messy as in clean, but not brushed] As for eyes, there really isn't much that you can control. Contacts are an option, but aren't natural and can be misleading.

8.
Make eye contact. Looking at them directly in the eyes during conversation and not jolting side-to-side will gain their trust and probably their respect.

9.
Keep in shape, but don't obsess. It probably wouldn't hurt to do some basic crunches and pushups each day. You'll feel better about yourself internally and look better externally. If you have any sports such as running, bicycling, hiking, if you exploit them in a positive manner, you may find yourself unintentionally exercising and accidentally gaining a more attractive physique. Either way, you'll do fine, unless you are extremely overweight, in which case, this article may not help you.

10.
Be funny at times, but also sincere too. If you look deep into her eyes at some point, even if it's just to thank her for something, she'll be won over; this has got to be done sparingly! No girl wants a boy who is overly serious and always sincere, so just make sure it's tactfully implemented. Give her a taste and then immediately switch to something funny or irrelevant. If you linger in her eyes too long, she'll get majorly creeped out!

11.
Realize that personality is the basis of all attraction. Be nice, polite, sensitive and aware of our female needs, and don't be afraid to use those brains of yours! Every girl under the sun believes the intelligent male is as sexy as it gets, especially when it is accompanied by wit, style and personality. It is a serious turn on when a guy shows a little intellect every once in a while.

12.
Don't be jealous. You're not committed, and besides "You're so secure with yourself, you have no reason to be fearful." There is a point and a place when maybe something should be said, but sorry hombre, you're not there yet. In the meantime, just smile and go with the flow. If she introduces a friend to you or any thing equivalent, smile, say hello and immediate shake his hand and talk small talk. (this will probably drive the other boy crazy, the girl will like you more, and you're going to get points both from the girl and from the other boy tripping in words and in action at that moment or at a later date).

13.
Learn that women love a confident man. They are extremely adept determining your level of confidence reading your non-verbal communication. They will pick-up your non-verbal signals that you wouldn't even have a clue about.

14.
If you are at a bar or a club, and you see a girl you want to talk too, try to be calm, and get eye contact first, you can see if she finds you interesting, and then make your move! Good luck!
See if you like any thing she does. If you do talk to her about that stuff.

15.
Talk about things in your life that relate to hers, and then let her converse with you. Everyone likes to talk about their lives, and what better way to talk about it than with someone else sharing their interests?

Hope you enjoyed reading LOL.
Xpkr.

 

no color, no text difference, no pictures, great detail though, alot of effort.

6/10 for now, edit it...

 

um pictures huh? i can do better looks tro.

 

some pictures of couple's, guy's staring at girls. something of relevance to your guide.

 

BORING.

Heres my way to get a chicks attention:

1. Go for a drive
2. If its night i turn on my underbody neons (as well as my interior ones)
3. If i see a chick i ask if they want a lift

OMG SIMPLE.

 

Thats the way to do it!

 

Very good guide, Thanks

 

Someone tested it yet? Does it work?
I might test it soon oO its a very clear guide lol.

That's a pretty good one

 

Banned so fast?

It's a very nice guide though. I can tell that the person who made this guide put in a lot of thought. Most of these things are true from own experience.

nice, nice.

 

Be yourself. Enough said

 

Here's my version on how to get a Girls attention in 2 steps!
1) Don't follow a guide on "How to Get a Girl's Attention in 15 steps."
2) Be yourself, and look fresh.

OMG, this guide is so hard to make. 1/10...

 

Exactly, just be yourself, even if you have low self esteem, SOME girl must love some guy's personality.

4/10

 

Eh ok guide, but you should (your banned now though) put some color in it etc.

Decent, 5/10

 

uhm tested this guide,lol it worked..me n the chick go out now =)

 

If you follow this guide then your sad.

Only things to do

1) look good (as in cloth ect)
2) Don't be afraid to talk to her.

 

Only people who go on Sythe need this!



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