Guide: Dating Tips & How to Maintain a Healthy Relationship!

Hey there @Hex the thread was quite an enjoyable read

I'd like to add that, quite honestly, girls just want a guy who is just being themselves. Speaking from experience, I used to be that person that wasn't confident in myself and would try to act like the person she would "like". I feel that many guys do this and quite honestly, it's such a huge turnoff for girls. For me, I am fully confident in myself and the response you get from girls is totally different than me in years past.

Being in a relationship myself, she told me that the reason she liked me and was interested was because of how I am just genuinely me. I feel a lot of guys discredit themselves unfortunately and because of it they miss out. Honestly, my advice would be that you have to realize there is only one you in the world. You can't be a perfect "anybody else" so don't try. Be the best you that you can be and rock that shit because it works. A girl doesn't want someone insecure and unsure of themselves, just be confident and true to yourself and it will work great (Keeping in mind you know how to actually interact with girls as well etc)

That's just my thoughts on it, feel free to add some points to your main thread Hex!

 

I did add that girls do like confident guys. Being confident means that you’re capable of being yourself, and you’re not afraid to «miss out».
That being said, the tips I mentioned does not discredit being yourself, it basically gives you an idea of what girls are into and how you should react to certain situations, and how you can catch a girls interest. I believe most guys find themselfes in their early 20s or late teen years, I struggled knowing who I am until the age of 17-18 myself. This guide was made for the sole purpose of giving people an idea of who to date long term (red flags, keepers), how you should maintain a healthy relationship, not to mention keep her interest (granted every girl is different). My guide will never be 100% accurate. It’s just some general advice that could help you in the process of getting into a relationship and possibly long term.

TL;DR: I agree with you, you should never get into a relationship being someone else. You will show your true colors to her sooner or later.

 

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Oher red flags:
- She cares too much how much you make.
- Does not motivate you, in the long run this is a big red flag.
- If you work out, she might like how you look and will only treat you like a piece of meat (sooner or later).
- Had multiple boyfriends in the past (a sign that she is not looking for something serious or there is a reason why she can't stay in one)
- Is not picky when starting a relationship (does not care about bad habbits and other stuff)

Positives:
- She is a Christian (meaning loyal, smart etc).
- She has similar hobbies, wants to spend free time with you.
- Makes you laugh, if she doesn't at all, then it is most likely that it won't go far.
- Cooks well (if you can't cook well then this is pretty good). Of course you can't judge a person based just on that but if she always does not want to cook for you for whatever reason then it is a bad sign.


You also should have added more tips for guys such as:

• Get a decent haircut, if you don't have short hair then it is very likely that you look like a wimp (unless you look like Antonio Banderas and can pull it off)
• Perfume, very nice addition, especially when you go out with her (nowadays it is pretty cheap). Bonus points.
  
• Dress appropriately, I want to vomit when I see grown up guys with white trainers and suits (WTF are you doing?). Learn how to dress up.
• If you are very skinny - start eating more protein and work out, if you are overweight - go on Keto diet and work out.
• Stop drinking alcohol and smoking. It is unhealthy and does not look 'cool'.
• If you don't have courage to talk to people and can't be a winner (ALPHA) - change that, get more testosterone by changing your diet and being more phisically active.