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Shredderbeam and the others are right. If your friends cannot see past the fact that you have different beliefs than you, and look at the fact that you are both made of dirt, blood, ect, then they were never your friends to begin with, now were they?

Find friends. I won't say find new friends, because those who exile you for your beliefs are not old.

Simple.

 

Shawn; I have a serious dilemma.
I have this girl that I've liked for about 6 months. We're really good friends.
She told me on AIM about 2 weeks ago that she's really into me. She wants to go out with me; and she's obsessing over me. I don't want to tell her that I'm in love with her; but I want it to be spontaneous. I was thinking about one day when we're alone going in for a kiss even though we're not dating.
What should I do?!?!?!?!

 

Ahem, thanks everyone, she's my girlfriend now. AreS-, date before you kiss. If she's so into you, she would want to kiss you as soon as you start dating, soon after, or maybe even before. If you really love her, make sure she's yours before some else gets her.

 

Thanks, man.
I'm going to just go with it.
I know for a fact 2 of my friends are in to her; and she refuses. She wants me and only me. And she did get cute over the summer.

 

first i want to say your welcome and congrats man.

heres my opinion as what super autoer said. with him saying go out with her first before you kiss her you may rush into things and like a few weeks into the relationship something may happen and you may break up. before i went out with my gf(still together now) we talked for about 3-6 months before we went out. this really lets you get to know her. i know you may say you are in love with her but really get to know her before you commit to this. you never know. i say it is ok if you were to kiss/hook up before you go out. thats really nothing serious anymore.... but good luck

EDIT: you say your sure that she is into you and she only wants you. this is a reall y good because you dont have to rush things and you can get to really know each other and it will be for the best

 

Alright, I never thought I'd be here but anyways, here it goes.
Alright so me and this girl are dating and we have been for about 4 weeks. We have dated before, but we took a break during the summer and started dating again a little while after school started. I really like her and think I'm in love with her. The problem is idk how to tell her, she cant text or im or myspace or anything help?

 

Use a phone, set up a date.

 

I seem to have fallen in love I love her we know each other a lot but the problem I am facing is...I dont know if she loves me, can any one give any suggestions on how to WOW her into liking me more or even how to figure out if she loves me back or not =( I text her as much as I can i talk to her all the time, she is a person who is quiet and moved from another school so she dont got that many friends. Give me some suggestions sythe I am in desprite need

 

im not to sure if you go to school with her, but if you do hang out with her in school be yourself. set up dates and fun activities... girls like that shit. surprise her with flowers... idk do creative shit to show her that you love her and you want her to feel the same way

like i told blak magik. and like i said to your thread in General Discussion / Off Topic. be yourself. talk to her but dont go over board and text her and talk to her to much then she could think your obsessive and she may not want that. but flowers, dates, movies, dinners. idk the sky is the limit with what you can do. cook dinner. or something. there is sooooooooooooo many options you have.

the main thing though for both of you is be yourself and let them know who you are and what you are about...

good luck......

 

I'm gonna make this quick and simple, she asked me who I liked, and she told me who she likes, so now i am obligated to tell her, but i'm scared as hell. wtf do i do?

 

what do you mean by this... do you like her...? did she say she likes you...? if she did say she likes you, do you like her back, if not you cant lie to her and if you do you may get yourself something into that you dont want.

 

Like pointed out before you've made your post confusing to understand. If you like her:

Just ask her out. That way atleast you have a chance, if you never tell her, shes never gona know.

 

I'm dating a girl that moved to Pennsylvania (other side of the country..), but the distance is just too much. And I like this other girl, but I'm not sure she likes me, and she's taken. She liked me about a year ago, but I don't know about now. I'm sure she would breakup with him and go out with me, if she liked me still..


And her dad is my dads best friend, lol.

 

Don't break up people, thats just dick.

 

well lets just say you didnt have the other girl... would you still break up with her cause your gf moved to the other side of the country?? if it was up to me. i couldnt do a long distance relationship. now about the other girl you dont know if she is there for you or not. i would say dont worry about the otehr girl just worry about the problem with you and your gf right now

 

Hey guys. First off I would like to say that this is NOT about me. It's about a close friend. Ok, well my friends dad abuses him. This isn't physical abuse (He's never hit him, ever), however it is verbal, and emotional abuse. He calls him names, puts him down, and makes him feel like shit. A few examples of what he says:
1) Your so fat, lose weight, girls will never like you.
1.5) You will never lose weight, by the time your in college you will be rolling to school
2) Every curse word in the book
- His father did had Hepatitis C,and was on MAJOR drugs for almost 3 years. The drugs did fuck him up, a lot. The abuse was horrible during the 3 years, but it was just as bad 6 months after he stopped taking them. In the beginning my friend thought that maybe its because of the drugs, and he will wait a bit to see what happens after. It was a bit better after he was off them, but still bad. He yells a lot, and does the same to my friends mother (but not as harsh. He doesn't hit her either). I know all of this because I witnessed some of it, and he told me. He asked me what I would do, and I couldn't answer it. Im hoping you could help.. His grades are also slipping a bit, he's been depressed, and emotionally unstable at points. Hes also told me many times that the worst part of it is, is that like half hour after he does it, he comes up to him and starts talking to him like nothing ever happened. I WANT TO STRESS THAT HIS FATHER ISN'T A BAD GUY, HE DOES LOVE HIM.. HE JUST HAS SOME ISSUES. SO DONT SAY SHIT LIKE KICK HIS ASS, OR STUFF LIKE THAT. I NEED POSITIVE FEEDBACK FOR HIM give me some ideas so I could tell him. Also, if you have any questions concerning this ask me. I might be missing some stuff. Thank you

 

Sounds like this dad needs an ass whoopin (your friend needs to stand up to him)

 

Yeah, but he really isn't a bad guy. He just has some issues..

 

Hey guys. First off I would like to say that this is NOT about me. It's about a close friend. Ok, well my friends dad abuses him. This isn't physical abuse (He's never hit him, ever), however it is verbal, and emotional abuse. He calls him names, puts him down, and makes him feel like shit. A few examples of what he says:
1) Your so fat, lose weight, girls will never like you.
1.5) You will never lose weight, by the time your in college you will be rolling to school
2) Every curse word in the book
- His father did had Hepatitis C,and was on MAJOR drugs for almost 3 years. The drugs did fuck him up, a lot. The abuse was horrible during the 3 years, but it was just as bad 6 months after he stopped taking them. In the beginning my friend thought that maybe its because of the drugs, and he will wait a bit to see what happens after. It was a bit better after he was off them, but still bad. He yells a lot, and does the same to my friends mother (but not as harsh. He doesn't hit her either). I know all of this because I witnessed some of it, and he told me. He asked me what I would do, and I couldn't answer it. Im hoping you could help.. His grades are also slipping a bit, he's been depressed, and emotionally unstable at points. Hes also told me many times that the worst part of it is, is that like half hour after he does it, he comes up to him and starts talking to him like nothing ever happened. I WANT TO STRESS THAT HIS FATHER ISN'T A BAD GUY, HE DOES LOVE HIM.. HE JUST HAS SOME ISSUES. SO DONT SAY SHIT LIKE KICK HIS ASS, OR STUFF LIKE THAT. I NEED POSITIVE FEEDBACK FOR HIM give me some ideas so I could tell him. Also, if you have any questions concerning this ask me. I might be missing some stuff. Thank you

 

Maybe the kid should sit down and talk with him, man to man.