Personal support topic

Ok, so there's this girl named Vannesa (Sorry, can't spell) who I met on a family visit to my Unkle in Mexico. She's my cousins dads girlfriends daughter (He may be a twice removed cousin [i'm not sure]) we're not related so I wanted to know. If they marry, will her and I be related? Also, how do you know if a girl likes you i'm almost 13 and we're in the same grade but live on two different parts of Texas. Ok, I did this thing where I exchanged phone nos. with everyone (the only one that I really wanted was Vanessas. I gave her mine and she gave me her's. I'm not sure if she like likes me, but I do. I think she might, heres why. We were on a bench swing in my relitave's back yard and it was COLD. I sat next to her and my cousin sat next to me she put her legs in my lap. After a while I put my arm around her she did to for a little while. I think she might just be shy. I wanted her to keep her legs up (they were WARM!) so she did. We shared a coke and I put her leg around mine and she put her's around mine. I got a fluffy jacket and we used it as a blanket she said she was tired so she laid her head on my shoulder. She seemed shy so I said it was ok. And this whole time she was sick so bad she had to take motrin. I wanted to know if it would be ok for us to go out if they marry. I'm Christain so I wanted to know if it was all right. I trust you guys.

Toonytoony

 

sounds like a 5year olds love story...i love shawn soo ill give you tips..she is your cuz so dont do anything. she probably just trusts you but doesnt like you only if she is hot!! like jlo the marry.

xtern

 

im not 5................ gtfo

shes not my cousin ne way... read it!

 

Well.. Um its sad that you can't spell her name and you like her.

 

just ask her..lol

 

Well you say you guys live far away, and since you're 13 and can't drive, it will never work. That was a cute story though, I lol'd.

 

its like those stories were its like "this one time, this girl came up to me, and said hi. i think she loves me ". no but seriously, if its a family friend, i wouldnt recommend it. unless she was like Lela Star hot.

 

Id say find one that lives closer, still keep in touch with her and when your older you could go for a root out of it. tho at 13 girlfriends are a waste of time.

 

I highly doubt she likes you in that way based on what you just posted.

And no, your family will likely not approve.

 

I feel kinda empty inside now.... I dunno why, and what causes me to feel so empty. I have no idea. It's not that I am hungry or something, but maybe it's boredom, I don't have a clue. Maybe it's some kind of mild depression, maybe it's that I miss somebody, but I don't know who.
Man, this sucks...

Just wanted to say that, makes me feel a little bit better, but I still feel empty inside, tomorrow I will post on how I feel than.

 

Talk to someone close to you about it.

 

Everybody is asleep and I am not somebody that talks much about his feelings

EDIT:
It's the next morning, feeling better now, no empty feeling

 

What's the best way to ask someone out. I need suggestions and advice because I plan on asking this girl out to the movies on friday.

What I have planned at the moment is that during brunch when she leaves her freinds' mom's classroom, and is about to go down the stairs I come up with a jewelery box, go down on one knee and be like:

"_____, wanna go to the movies with me on Saturday?" with a movie ticket instead of a ring. The movie ticket will have my phone number on the back.

Am I doin it rite?

 

sound a bit serious...
what about a formal question? it sounds like your planning to marry her


lol, wish it was like that in norway ;o
here it's more like:
1. get drunk.
2. find a chick.
3. make out until she gives free entrance to anything in your imagination.
4. get done, pleasure her/yourself, get her phone number.
5. take the night with a great smile at your face.
6. if she's really good, call and ask for a repeat.

 

That is perfect. I approve.

 

Movies = no chance of sex.
Getting drunk = good chance.

Get her drunk + hotel room = GG.

 

does he need a hotel room?;p allways a free room at parties

 

No just ask her "Hey____ Want to go to the movies?"

Or ask the same thing but get a buddy and go on a double date its easier if its your first time.

 

I think you're making WAY too big of i deal out of it.. but I guess if you want to that would work.

Usually when I ask girls to movies I just ask kinda at a random time.

 

That's pretty smooth.