Personal support topic

Baracade your door, and i recommends getting a firearm, if its that serious,

 

Please tell me your joking... typical american thinking guns solve all problems. as if you would shoot your sister your a toss pot.

 

He's Australian.

 

FYI: that wasn't me on the first page of this thread...that was a hacker on my account.

Erm, let me sum up in a sentence- Gay or straight confusion at the age of 16 in High School where practically no one is against it, but I'm still confused about which category I fit in. Should I keep it bottled up because I'm not even sure what I am, or let it out to whom?

 

Well, if you are unsure that could mean that you are bisexual. Regardless, I'd recommend that you just wait it out and you'll eventually find the sexuality you are most comfortable with. If you come out of the closet, realize that you will face ridicule from people, however that is ultimately a decision that you must make on your own.

 

Your parents would be an idea, tho it may be difficult. My best bet is if you have a close friend thats a girl, talk to her about it. girls are great listeners. make sure your close tho.

You may feel better about talking to someone about it, or you may wait until you know where you fit in. either way try not to get depressed about it. I cant give you any more advise really as i dont know how your feeling, but talking to someone usually helps, im sure your parents can help.

 

Yeah, I'm waiting it out. I've talked to several close friends, but they don't really care . Literally don't care lol. I think they all assume it's a passing phase or they know I'm not sure yet.
My parents are christian perhaps not such a good idea, since they're very devout Christians.

 

Teenagers often gets hormonal imbalances whilst going through puberty, and this can cause confusion about their sexual orientation. If this is the case, then I can assure you that you're definitely not alone on your High School, as it's bound to happen to approximately 15-20% of all teenagers.

How long have you felt attraction to people of the same gender as you?

 

I worked with wants to move in with me and hook up, but like, I can't tell if she's being serious or not.

So I'm letting her stay for a week, and then kicking her out if she doesn't have a job...

lol.

I like her, but she's moving fasssttt... I just told her a few days ago i liked her, and it's already "I'm falling for you" and I'm like.

Whoa hold on there now honey, i'm just not ready for that kind of a commitment O.O!

 

Get to know her, etc. Make her get a good job and work endlessly if you don't like her, then get married, buy a house and make sure she makes the downpayment and make her get you shit, and then divorce her ass and take everything. Etc.


Jk haha, even though that could work... Get to know her I guess... But... Moving in already. Damn.

 

Yeah, we've only been talking about a relationship for 2 days ....

 

Well Deacon, you have to se your boundaries. Obviously she wants something, or she wouldn't be moving in with you. So, you can find out if she is truly, and deeply "in love" for you that much by trying to set boundaries. You have to tell her, or else it will all blow up.

So what you should tell her is that you want to slow things down and see what happens. If it has only been two days, and she doesn't have a job, and you do. Than i think that is a clear clue as to why she wants to move in.

 

ok so i like this girl alot but im not the best looking and im overweight but im really funny and stuff but shes like another dude and she has no clue i like her what should i do

 

Show her that you do like her?
Because keeping everything to yourself doesn't work out very good. You could do what I did and basically almost lose all your true friends because you kept everything in and everything just came out...

But anyways, yea tell her you do like her. Maybe it will work maybe it won't because it doesn't always work out, life's like that. But better to step up now, and feel the pain knowing she doesn't like you than feeling the pain and killing yourself thinking that you could have done this and that. Step up man, tell her.

 

You can let her know without actually saying it, just start flirting with her, give he alot of attention. if you play your cards right, she will start liking you and forget about the other guy.

 

I'm having a little bit of a problem in my life too. I mean... I've been down some pretty rough as patches earlier on in my life. Parent Divorcing when I was like 7. Then in grade 8 I had to spend 3 months in a Mental Health Institute for a Suicide attempt, Well not really an attempt. They brought be back after 5 minuted of flat-lining it. Well, Onto the real issue. I honestly and truely have the urge to try it again, I know I shoudln't do anything along those lines, but I cant stand living the way I do.

I'm Clinically Depressed, cant take meds for it because Ani's only make it worse. ( Generally speaking. ) And I've gotten extremely lonely in the last few years ( Grade 11 at the moment. ) I don;t know why I'm feeling the way I do, but a little bit of guidance is what I really need. I don;t think I could go through with trying it again... But the urge is there, and I really don't want it there.


PS: The last thing I need is more people Judging me. If anyone has any put-down comments, Just do everyone a favour and keep it to yourself, please.

 

Things can get tough sometimes bro, it's different for different people but I've had a few rough spots myself where I've had similar thoughts, though I doubt it's been quite as bad as yours.

The thing you gotta remember is that no matter how shitty things get, it will always pass... If you sit things out long enough, it will always get better, even if it has to get worse first. It's just how the world works.... and you've got so much life ahead of you if your only in grade 11. Experience is all that truly matters, and you've got at least another 50 years left of it, so give it a shot.

If you need someone to talk to you can add me on MSN @ [email protected], I'm on a lot bro, just lemme know.

 

pwnage

go have some fun...

also...if u lived with ur immediate family ur whole life that could b the reason...get some time away from them

 

Everybody embraces suicidal thoughts sometime in their life.. You are only at real risk (psychologically) if you know when, where and how you are going to do it. Don't let people get you down, they are just doing it to make themselves look better. Where does garbage go? In the trash. Where do you take a shit? In the toilet. If you let others think you are trash or a toilet you will get "garbage" thrown on you and you will get "shit on." I guess thats the best I can explain it. Just don't be the person who lets people get to you. It takes more away from them if you don't let stuff get to you.

Now, I'm not saying they are necessarily social problems but thats what it sounds like to me.

 

If I were you I would try to get some help. I have known about 5 people in my life that had the same problems 3 of them got help (Councilors, and some other support, some anti-depressants.) The 3 who did are well off now and its almost as if it was a thing in the past. I have been at your point I have had allot of stuff go down in my life but always know its never a good idea to commit suicide. Unfortunately the other 2 who did not ended up killing themselves, not knowing that allot of people do care, and suicide is a selfish act because it hurts everyone around you after your gone. I would really, really suggest getting yourself help so you can fight your disease, and yes Clinical depression is a disease of the mind and allot of my family has it and its not your fault, but you can always be treated...never give up.