What makes you a "man?"

Well put. Sadly, not many express these qualities nowadays, man or woman. I label people that hold those qualities "successful", not man. Kudos on incorporating those though.

I really hope you're kidding... Everyone knows intelligence > reverence. Who wants an idiot worshipping them?

 

What about people with both parts..?

I think a man is usually visibly a man, being characteristically different from women in a number of ways.
Or if you are asking the mind, i don't know. A woman can think like a man, be into all the 'macho' things, and a man can like to dress in flowery skirts and thongs.