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maybe she feels comfortable around u and she was just having a crack at u... in a playful sorta way?

 

just talk more to her hang out with her , and see if she gives a sign if she doesn't then just say how you feel. If she is polite as you say she won't tell it to evry1 and make you look like a fool n fi not i would say change school

 

Kill Her Boy Friend ^^

 

just get the learn her... But probably you need to get over her. If she has a boyfriend, she won't dumb him for you. So just get her out of you're mind. (easier said then done, I know ).

So my word of advise is, get to know her a bit better. (find out if you're feelings are real)
when they are not = just get her out of you're mind
when they do = Just kill her boyfriend and eat gay popcorn (wich means, sorry dude you'd probably won't be able to get her)

 

well, the douchebag in me wants me to tell you to kill her BF and console her in her times of great sadness. but as a guy thats in a longterm relationship id say.... definately DONT kill him. mostly b/c i could easily be the guy in question =P

but errr...

you gotta keep talking to her and build attraction, that way when she's done with this guy, you're next

 

its good that you like her for more of her personality and not looks, thats alot of problems that we as women face today

anyways, act like a middleschool guy with a crush and have your friend give her a note saying like "meet me *somewhere on the schoolground here* after school" then tell her how you feel

 

Okay, you guys. I do not LOVE this chick. I do not want to kill her boyfreind.He's actually kindof a cool guys. But thanks for the good laughs rofl.

 

Well, if she's with someone that she likes. You should respect that, don't be trying to steal her. Just try to make a " Good Impression ", if you see her.. Say hi. She drops her books... Pick them up. Be polite, and carful as you can.

 

well
a good way to tell if u like "love" her is how u feel around her. like if when your around her and you feel your heart beating so fast that it makes u feel sick 2 ur stomach then theres prolly sumthin goin on in there. but if wat u described is all you have then i find it as sort of u look up to her as a role model? just kuz u said u admire how she is. but idk what EXACTLY your feeling so i cant say exactly what i think. but if u do like her like her then ask her if she could ever see yall goin out together. and if she says yes n u do like her like her then go for it. personally thats just my advice. as for the current bf, very few things last forever.

 

You like her. Not an unusal feeling. If you're friends with her boyfriend, then you probably shouldn't attempt to steal her because:
a) That's such a dick thing to do (unless you are dick. Then by all means do it.)
b) It could result in her hating you for trying to do something like that because she is attached to her boyfriend.


BUT

If you don't give a fuck about her boyfriend and his feelings, become closer with the girl you like. Inquire about the status of the relationship with her boyfriend, and ask about problems, if there's any.
Example: If she says "oh yeah the other night he missed my game (because she is a cheerleader or some stupid shit) and im kind of pissed" tell her that you would go to your games, and give her the feeling that you care more about her and her feelings than her boyfriend. And maybe even slightly suggest that he doesn't care.
BUT DO NOT GO OVERBOARD.
Continue with that kind of shit until you become really close. Tell her you don't like anyone, or hint that you like "someone who is in a relationship".
Call her up and talk to her on the phone for long periods of time.

If she shows signs of maybe avoiding you slighty or anything like that, stop trying because she'll end up hating you if you try to get her to cheat.


Basically, she'll eventually tell you that she's unhappy with the relationship she's in and that means you've made huge progress. Play your cards right from there and you should be in shortly after.



BTW, what "clique" do you consider yourself and her to be?

 

pay me 350$ to make her boyfriend disappear *Puts clip into AK and jumps into el camino*

 

I was scared about doing that because the next time you see her you feel a sense of awkwardness and you might start avoiding her.

 

Dude, this is the worst possible place to ask for girl advice. If you need some good advice, my msn is [email protected] . All my friends say I give really good advice.

 

seriously man fuckin aye if shes got a bf thats never stopped anyone before

 

Well, I'm not an expert on girls - heck, I've never even had a girlfriend, but common sense does prevail.

Girls like poetry for some unknown reason - I listen to metal, rock, Death Metal etc. so I'm not the type to write a poem - so if you're the romantic type, unlike me, then yea, write her a poem.

Ask her to go to the movies, just as friends, you know. Find out when her birthday is, and buy her something, even though you mightn't be invited to her party

Don't make yourself look like a fool with sweet talk. If you're making it obvious that you're trying to flirt with her, then well, I have one thing to say, which would be "Sucks to be you".

And lastly, to be fair, and to save her a lot of stress, worrying, and possibly even blackmail (it happens), let her do the right thing by her boyfriend. If she loves him, let her be with him. If he makes a bad screwup, and you're a close friend, she might possibly want to talk to you about it, meaning you have more of a chance of getting closer by consoling her there.

I don't even want a girlfriend anymore though - I've chosen to forget about intimacy in my life for when I have time for it - Homework in school, work in programming, learning a completely different language (Japanese FTW), cooking stuff (yes, I like to cook), playing a bit of basketball with my father, etc. In my eyes, I'd be close to her, but there would be no time, and when theres no time, theres no girlfriend.

Good luck dude, last bit of advice is - if you find yourself stuttering like crazy, perhaps you should talk to one of the girls in your grade that you know as a friend, but doesn't have that effect on you, because you don't "love" them. Its always good to get practice talking to girls, seriously, the last thing you want is for words to come out the wrong way! (Its happened to me, unfortunately).

Good luck again, if you find yourself unable to hold it all in, you should see your school counsellor, or even a chaplain or elder that you can talk to. They're good at this sort of stuff, and if anyone can help your feelings about this, its them.

EDIT: Sorry if I made a few of those paragraphs look sorta stupid - I just got back from a nightmare of a camping trip, and I am FUCKING TIRED.

 

want some help? Stop using words like "confuzzled" lol

 

i Agree with Pur3, Talk to her more, Start hanging out after school, get her Number(always a good thing ), If she likes you more than her current BF, She'll say so. if she breaks up with him, Like pur3 said give it a week or 2 and ask her out.

Goodluck Mate.