My dad

Lost my dad three months ago today. I am 17 and he is/was my role model. Just wondering if anyone else has lost a parent around my age. What does the future hold for my family and I? I appreciate to all who respond

 

@theArc financially, you mean?

 

Not entirely sure what you are asking but I have lost my mum when I was 13 but the future has turned out great for me. My dad was a big help. My only advice really is that you keep your mum in high spirit as she will do the same.

If you could be more precise with your worries maybe we can help more

 

No, more of like what will future family gatherings be like, will normalcy return, do you end up forgetting the parent as time passes?

Sorry to hear about your loss. Thanks for the advice, trying to keep my mom in high spirits for sure!

 

You will never forgot your dad but you may eventually not think about him so much to the point of being upset. I for one do not think about my mum everyday but theres never a time i wouldnt wish for her back. For me normality has returned as im working, my sister is doing well and my dad has moved on and found someone really nice to spend his time with which is great.

Overall you will grief for a while, some longer than others but in due time you will only think of happier times and move on with life.

Wish you all the best

 

@Ted_2 really said it the best way possible. Eventually things will adjust, even as rough as it may sound right now. Life will carry on and there will be moments or memories that will remind you of your dad, but you can always talk to your mom and she can help you out through any issue. a close family is a loving family.
i was adopted, so i didnt have either of my parents while i floated through foster care for a bit, but i guess everything turned out great in the long run.

 

Growing up my only father figure was my grandpa. Once he passed I didn't really have anyone else to go to when I needed help or support. Also family gatherings changed dramatically, no one got together during the holidays as much. His passing definitely changed our family dynamic forever.

It'll be okay. You won't forget your father you're at an age where you have plenty of memories. It would be completely different if you were a child. Everything will adjust, but not everything will be the same. Your life has changed dramatically, and a lot of old routines and traditions left with your dad. That's okay though.

 

This is personal and hits the emotional side but my dad abandoned me at a very young age.