Need Advice

Well guys, personally I'm feeling down because I feel back-stabbed in someway.

a month ago this one girl started to hate me so much because I used to rant about girls on snap and she was angry about it. I told her to fuck off my snap if she doesn't like what she hears. But I stopped doing it because it was a time wasting activity.

So then she argued with a few of my closest friends about it, i wasn't present because it was a group chat on whatsapp.

As of currently they chill with her often and laugh around her like nothing is going on. They went out today without inviting me because they know she hates me. I seriously considered them as brothers to me these close friends....now they act like nothing is going on wtf?

What I believe they shouldn't be talking to her because she dissed me so much and swore at me indirectly. My close friends told her that it wasn't my intention to offend girls, but rather giving out a valuable message, and it is true, because that was my intention of putting those snaps out. Brothers should be standing together, and together against enemies. That is what I feel.

I'm a really miss-understood person, and only my close friends are understanding me.

Thoughts?

 

Hoes steal your bros sorry to hear that man as you grow you see who is true sucks to see it but it's the truth sometimes you gotta just do you

 

I would personally get super sad about it and self medicate, maybe dropping some acid could freshen up your view on things, or it could drive you insane. go smoke a joint and forget, or take some xanax and completely become a zombie, nothing will concern you then.

 

edit: people are super fucked up and most don't care about you. they just want whatever you have to offer. move on and fuck them

 

My friends used to have a code they stuck by which was "bros before hoes", we don't/didn't go near each others ex's and stuff like that either, in fact to avoid similar issues to yours at the moment.

Whilst you cant make them choose who they can/cant speak to, it is quite shocking that they have decided to go behind your back and as you said essentially backstab you purposely, I would suggest trying to speak to them and say in a calm manner like, hey what's going on here then?

Get your point across, if it isn't working, then you know to cut the ties as they are not worth your time if they don't value you the same as you do them.

 

Me and my mates all follow the same code. If it's someone's ex you ask if they're fine with you dating them and if they say no then that's the end of it.

It doesn't matter what other people say about us, we all stick together regardless of if one of us fucked something up. If you can get an agreement like that with your friends it's something that will keep you together for a very long time and you'll always have people to rely on.

 

I wish that sort of thing existed, but it doesn't here.

Thank you all.