Shy to girls

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Shy to girls
  1. Unread #21 - Oct 9, 2014 at 7:52 AM
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    Shy to girls

    You've just gotta work up the confidence (not to be confused with cocky) to talk to one and it only gets easier from there. If you don't know what to talk about just ask some questions, try to be confident, interested, genuine and make tasteful jokes if you can think of some. The girls you talk to are probably gonna be nice people but if they're not just try to think where you went wrong so you can use that to help you in future encounters and even though she did you still gained a lot of knowledge. Like everything practice makes perfect, good luck! :)
     
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    Shy to girls

    Start with the ones you find un-attractive, then work your way up.

    I'm pretty sure that will help. Also consider them a friend, not a potential gf as someone mentioned
     
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    Because you put them on a pedestal?? You're comfortable around dudes because you have nothing to worry about whether they think you're handsome, like you or not. As cliche as it sounds, just be yourself and don't think about it. You'll be amazed when you do something you think is stupid but yet no one cares to give a flying f***.

    Moral of this, stop thinking about what they think about you. Confidence is what you perceive with your self. If you don't think you can't do something, then you're not confident. Simple as that.
     
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    Shy to girls

    I'm the same exact way, I have talked to a few now but i'm still iffy about it. If you get any advice please PM :)
     
  9. Unread #25 - Jan 26, 2015 at 10:30 PM
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    Shy to girls

    You should just relax and talk to them.
    You're not shy around guys because you aren't trying to impress them and look good for them but you are for the girls which is completely understandable.
    I'm the same sometimes with girls but after the first few seconds of the conversation, it's fine. Since, your talking to them in school, why not go slow? Just sit next to a girl, introduce yourself and tell them how your new. Once the class starts, it's not like you have to continue conversation since you will be paying attention. Then, when all is over, you can say bye and hope she has a nice day.
    I'm sure over time you will naturally get more and more comfortable if you just don't rush and force it.
    Good luck.
     
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