What happened?

Hey guys, so this is my first time writing a topic here on the Personal Suppor section.

So the past Friday I went to a friends party and this girl comes to me and compliments my hair and we start talking a bit, around 2 days later I started talking to her on facebook and got her number. We have been texting quite a bit ( she replies almost instantly) and I was supposed to meet her today. So last night we were talking and she says "Sorry, I was telling my mom that I wasn't going to be here tomorrow afternoon and she said that I have a doctors appointment" and I said "sure, no problem" and after a few minutes I said " I can visit you some other day", she didn't replied to this. Today morning I said "You don't talk now? ahah" and she didn't replied aswell. In the afternoon I tried to call her and it said it was unavailable and I thought "Is she ignoring me now...". When I get home I try to call her again, it rings once then it says it's unavailable. Then I see she's online on facebook and I tell her "What happened?" and she went offline like 3 minutes later.

What could possibly happen for her to start ignoring me all of a sudden?

TLDR: Met a girl on a party last Friday, started talking on facebook, got her number, was supposed to visit her today, she cancelled the night before and hasn't been talking to me.

 

Honestly man, sounds like your being a little clingy to a girl that barely knows you.

 

I'm sorry but it sounds like she may have changed her mind :/ I would give it some time before you try and call her, you don't want to come across as too clingy :/

 

You sent a ton of messages afterwards, that's bad. Don't seem so desperate. If I were in your shoes I personally just would have sent the first "What happened?" and if she didn't respond just don't respond yourself. If she doesn't respond for a week, fuck her. Probably not good anyways.

 

Even though you're banned, I'll still drop a little advice.

First off, you need to learn to take a hint about when someone doesn't want to talk to you, dawg.

Second, her excuse to not hang out is all made up bullshit. I don't know what you were saying to her over text, but it obviously creeped her out, or you did something to scare her away. Not sure how long "quite a bit" is, but girls don't generally just randomly decide they don't want to be contacted by a dude after talking to them for a few days unless the dude does something, or they hear that you're a serial rapist. I'm guessing you did something to creep her out, judging by the fact that after she didn't answer two of your texts in a row, you still called her twice and then Facebook messaged her. Don't contact her in anyway unless she contacts you first, you're coming into "ultra creepy stalker dude" territory. A good idea might be to reread what you were saying to her, see if any of it was creepy/weird, and never say that shit again.

 

Remember you can reply as unregistered in this section, bud.

I would say "don't act desperate", but you already have >_<! Sorry. Give her space dude. You're only friends, and there's a lot of ground to cover before it's not weird for you to be messaging each other constantly. Or just you, her.

I know when you start to like someone it's tough - but it's for your own good!