Girlfriend lied about taking birthcontrol, now shes pregnant!

Focus on finishing up university, then consider everything else.

This woman is not one you'll want to be with in the future if she's a lying asshole. However, a life is a life, and well, it's your own flesh and blood, unless you think she made out with some other idiot elsewhere.

I'd advise you to take responsibility for the kid in future, but stay away from a committed relationship with that woman.

 

Um. im pretty sure you can't law suit against it

1. No proof she said that
2. she has the first admenment

i think you're kinda scared tbh... JUST SHOVE HER DOWN THE STARIS!!!

just kidding dont do that ^_^. If i were you talk to her about adoption if not just do an abortion.

 

Goodluck. Long journey

 

Well you have two choices. Leave her cause your guna have trust issues with her and shes probably going to repeat her lying games in the future.

As for your child shes carrying. You can step up and still be a part of the childs life. Apply for custody/visting rights to your child. No matter what you do APPLY THRU THE COURTS and get it verified dont listen to what she or who ever says that theyl let u see baby when u want this and that if you do it legally than youl always have your rights as the father should things go bad.

And the other option is stay with her try to work things out but your constantly be thinking she lied all this and that.

 

First of all. Are you 100% that is yours?
If indeed it's yours... in my opinion you should stop any emotional relationship with this woman, but accept her decision on the baby. Then take responsabilty for it. After all is yours.
You should think hard on it. If you want to be in this kid's life. It's not his fault.
What ever you choose, i think it's better to see a lawyer and put it on paper with her.

 

You've got more chance of getting a girl pregnant even if she's on the pill then busting a condom.

I agree with Roary. I learnt it the hard way, having a kid at 16 years old age because I chose not to "wrap it". I can say at the time, WRONG decision, but I'm glad I've got my son.

What is with you Americans and using the pill over the bar? The pill literally does nothing, besides fuck with your body.

My girlfriend got the bar put in her arm right after she had our son, and she's fine. And has no way of getting pregnant for the 3 years. She's already had it in twice aswell, and so far so good.

 

Ditch the bitch! this is literally my worst nightmare, i feel for you buddy, although im not a fan of abortion, im also not a fan of girls lying about something like this, then bringing an unplanned baby into the world.

 

I really hope you can come to an agreement on an abortion, how old are you?

 

what the fuck does the first amendment have anything to do with this?

op don't listen to any of these morons, especially the ones saying "lol it's cool bro your fault". go see a lawyer

 

Good luck, make sure you take these guys advice. They're helpful as helllll

 

She pretty much has you by the balls. Our legal system will not help you since it's pretty much built for women to get resources from the men.

But let's be honest here. She is nearing her expiration date and you should have seen this coming. The sad reality is that you can't trust most women and apparently your gf is one of them. She will start to deteriorate with each coming year. In 10 years you will be at your prime and she will be past her expiration date. I can't see this relationship working out so I would advice you to not do something stupid like marrying her. This will be a hard journey and I wish you the best of luck, but what ever you do don't continue an emotional relationship with this woman. If you do that then with time the grip on your balls will just strengthen.

 

Honestly I'd break up with her. She's lied. You trusted that she'd take those birth control pills, she hasn't. If trust isnt the most important factor in a relationship, I don't know what is. She lost your trust, and she lost her boyfriend.

 

make her cleanse her insides

 

are you referring to an abortion? I don't think thats an option for him at the moment.

 

Welcome to the world of women.

 

roary you retarded feminist, they both mutually agreed for her to go on birth control because they didn't want a kid.
She was deceitful and didn't take the pills all the while lying to him that she was on them

Why would they use a condom + birth control pills unless his junk has a latex craving....

grow brain before talking crap

Thank You!

IMHO if somebody lies about something so big, there is no way you can trust her and be with her for the rest of your life.

Get legal counsel. If you were misled, you wont have to pay child support

 

Kind of...
But it dosn't feel as good with condom.

 

I wouldn't continue with her, but take care of the kid together. Try not to break up on bad terms, if you do.

A good friend of my family has his ex telling their kids he's a criminal, always lied about everything, resulting in his kids believing their mom and not wanting to see their father. The guy is one of the nicest guys I know, but it's breaking him down...


I wish you all of the luck in the world.

 

two things.

A. Kids aren't that bad. Believe me. Don't think bad thoughts, think good thoughts. You're about to learn how much you can actually love somebody, and while it's not always easy it's always going to be the light at the end of your tunnel when you're down.

B. If you have sufficient proof that the woman was trying to get knocked up against your will without your knowledge...that is actually grounds for a legal suit...if you chose to.

 

From my point of view I would be quite annoyed at her for doing this. I would talk it through and most likely leave her. Although I am against abortion, I think that in this case it would be the best for both of you as you are so young...